Amy and Tec: a Happy Marriage of Chinese and Korean Traditions in San Francisco

Amy and Tec are super organized. When they began to plan their wedding, they did it one and a half years in advance. When they first contacted my company, A Day Like No Other, they already knew where they wanted to get married: in San Francisco, at a venue linked to the military history of the City. The groom’s father had served and lived with his family on the Presidio of San Francisco, the historic military outpost.

Presidio of San Francisco

Presidio of San Francisco

It would be a destination wedding for about 150 guests, with the couple living on the East Coast and nearly all their guests coming from all over the country, Korea and Taiwan.  I was really grateful to have, in the end, a full 16 months for the planning!

The two fell in love with the Golden Gate Club on the Presidio, the former officers’ club – double-height Great Room with views of the Golden Gate Bridge, and located in the heart of the Presidio. Added bonus: the couple and the bridal party would stay at the Inn at the Presidio, a nearby building on campus that has been converted to an elegant boutique hotel and whose decor reflects the military past. Full immersion!

Inn at the Presidio

Inn at the Presidio

Antique Bugles at the Inn

Antique Bugles at the Inn

For the bride and her bridesmaids the day began with Hair and Makeup by Vinnia Tjhin. Then it was time for Amy to get into her elegant lace dress.


bride getting ready

Add to that a beautiful engagement ring and elegant headpiece…


headpieceIn keeping with her wedding colors – the saturated “lucky” Chinese red of her own heritage complemented by the additional vivid blue of the Korean flag (to honor Tec’s heritage), Amy had chosen a luxurious, formal bridal bouquet of 3 dozen red roses, and smaller bridesmaids’ bouquets to match (all from Tutti Fiori).

bouquetsThe bridesmaids wore a rich blue …


… and the prettiest strappy heels they could find!

shoesThe groom was meanwhile getting ready as well:

groom getting ready

… and of course he couldn’t do without a little touch of whimsy!


Here he is with his groomsmen, all of them in high spirits:

groomsmenAnd off they went with photographer Hardy Wilson for their “First Look”…

first look… and many, many photos  on the beautiful Presidio Campus, under a cloudless blue sky.

in the woods kissing

in the woods posing


Meanwhile, Ava and her catering team from Le’s Kitchen (and I, too) were super busy setting everything up for a Western ceremony, a Korean Bowing Ceremony, Cocktail Hour, Dinner and Dancing.

Arriving guests were greeted with sweets for good luck (a Chinese tradition) and a real “family tree” I had designed, decorated with fresh orchids (more of those later!) and childhood and family photos from the two people whose families would be joined today. In lieu of a standard guest book, we had prepared photo books for guests to sign:

family tree


cards and guest book

Following the Western ceremony, officiated by a personal friend of the couple,

here comes the bride

altar arrangement

“You may now kiss your bride!”first kiss

… guests enjoyed Cocktail Hour with specialty cocktails…

cocktails… and musical entertainment by the Corelli Trios. Bride and Groom meanwhile prepared for a traditional Pae Baek or Bowing Ceremony typical of Korean weddings with the help of Mr. and Mrs. Hong, professional Pae Baek organizers. They donned ceremonial clothes …

Korean shoes and practiced the ritual of bowing to their parents and other honored family members as an expression of their respect and gratitude.

korean ceremony

This ceremony sealed their marriage in the Korean tradition, as well!

korean ceremony 2In the meantime, the dining room got its finishing touches. Tables were set with elegant, shimmering platinum grey linens and napkins alternating in red and blue; with tall centerpieces of red orchids (a profusion of 180 stems of orchids by Tutti Fiori!),

dining room


place setting

and very personal menu cards: on the reverse, the bride had printed assorted photos and stories from the couple’s courtship and travels for all the guests to enjoy, mix and match. The wedding favors were just as personal: the animal-loving couple had made a donation to an animal protection agency on behalf of their guests who found little thank-you cards on their place settings.

To help guests find their assigned tables, I had come up with another personal idea: a mounted, enlarged photo of the couple with their beloved dog, Cody (who could not be with them on their Great Day), on the steps of the Capitol – that way Cody was present, after all! The photo could be taken apart into individual escort cards and proved to be a great conversation starter!

escort cards

escort cards 2

Immediately following their Grand Entrance, announced by DJ Shawn of Storm Productions

grand entrance… husband and wife enjoyed their First Dance:

first danceGuests meanwhile enjoyed a traditional ten-course Chinese banquet by Le’s Kitchen, followed by a dessert of traditional Taiwanese pineapple cakes – a nod to the bride’s heritage:

dessertAfter dinner, it was time for a huge dance party under the auspices of the Chinese “Double Happiness” symbol (a custom-made gobo by Just De’Lights),


and everyone had a fantastic time!

dance party

dance party 2


The Golden Gate Club was literally glowing from within, like an enchanted glasshouse!

glasshouse 2And here is why I love my job so much:

love my jobMany happy years together, Amy and Tec, and a long life!




How to Find the Perfect Venue – 101

So – he finally popped the question.

Stuck that big rock on your finger. You are engaged. Congratulations!

What now …? Like – wedding planning? Yes! Preferably with a professional (I happen to know – I am one. Look up my portfolio: A Day Like No Other!). But in any case, it never hurts to come up with a few ideas yourselves. First and foremost: what should your venue be like? (Once you know that, your wedding planner can help you to find one in your preferred area).

Maybe you’ve been dreaming of a particular venue for a while. Then, by all means, go for it!

But if not, here are a few pointers to get you going.

1.) Where would you feel most comfortable and happy on the best day in your life? On the beach, with your feet in the sand (so to speak); deep in the woods; in a romantic garden? Or rather indoors – in a mansion or hotel? Or are you rather the “modern/cutting edge” type, and a hip urban space – think art gallery – would be the way to go? Or do you see yourself on a ranch, maybe?

Get inspired: here are a few venues as examples.

Beach wedding TinaOn the beach in Half Moon Bay

StonepineStone Pine Estate, Carmel Valley

Holman Ranch

Holman Ranch, Carmel Valley

Liquid Sky

Liquid Sky Oceanfront Estate, Half Moon Bay

2.) What’s the style of your festivities – what would make you happiest? Would you like to go for high elegance, or rather rustic/bohemian charm? Is your style sleek and modern, or historic and ornate? Would you like to include Do-it-yourself work or rather have a professional unified design?

Here’s what I’m talking about:

foreign cinema

Foreign Cinema, San Francisco


DIY escort cards at a rustic wedding

alexa sean

A glamorous affair at General’s Residence, Fort Mason, San Francisco

3.) What about privacy? If you’re leaning towards a hotel wedding, all the logistics will be taken care of, because that’s what hotels do. But unless you buy out the whole hotel, there will be other guests around – and that means you’ll have onlookers, like it or not. And the same holds true for all public places, like parks and beaches. If that’s not your style, you should rather think of a mansion that you can completely rent out for your day – but be aware that the logistics will be a lot more complicated. You’ll have to bring in all you need for your celebration, from chairs and tables to china, glassware, flatware, and linens.The same, by the way, holds true if you’re thinking of a nice, relaxed backyard wedding at your parents’ house… few properties are equipped to handle parties of 150 people – so be prepared to rent portable bathrooms and book a valet parking service!

Some options for you…

Four Seasons

Ceremony setup, Four Seasons Hotel, San Francisco

Merchant Exchange

Merchant Exchange, San Francisco

kohl mansion

Kohl Mansion, Burlingame

4.) The time of the year: it is important, after all – even in sunny California. An outdoor wedding in San Francisco in July? Not necessarily a good idea – it may well be pretty foggy. The same on the beaches… and the same from late October to March. Or a garden party in the East Bay in August? Your guests might suffer from temperatures above 90 degrees. And if that was not enough: please think of the time of the day that you are envisioning your wedding. For example, sunset in November is at 4:30 pm… and the atmosphere of a wedding celebration changes dramatically with the time during the day. Imagine an evening wedding – that calls for an elegant cocktail hour, a sit-down dinner and dancing afterwards, right? Dress code, decor – probably elegant! Now imagine a late morning wedding outdoors, followed by brunch – that, on the contrary, feels more like a relaxed, picnic style affair – and maybe no dancing since it’s still plain daylight. If that’s what you are after, look for venues that offer celebrations until 8 or 10 pm only. They are often very affordable, just because of this limitation.

Monarch Cove Inn

Monarch Cove Inn, Capitola – for daytime weddings

5.) How important is the “dancing part” of the party to you? If that’s the high point of your wedding vision, make sure your venue allows for music until late into the night. Oftentimes music outdoors is restricted, e.g. has to cease by 10 pm – so dancing has to be planned for indoors only. Alternative: choose a “stand-alone” venue with no neighbors far and wide. Ranches far out on the California Coast are a good bet for that.

Sylvan Lake

Sylvan Lake Estate in the CA wine country – outdoor music allowed until 2 am!

6.) How long is your guest list? Once you’ve narrowed down your choices by style, type of venue, time of year and time of day… it’s time to crunch the numbers. First – the guest numbers! Exclude venues with less capacity than your guest count (or revisit your planning…) and don’t even plan on cramming a few more guests than allowed into your venue. Fire codes simply don’t allow to exceed the official numbers. You don’t want to put anyone in danger, after all. And while you’re at it, crunching numbers, the site fee is, of course, a consideration as well. Many venues offer discounts for off-season bookings or weekday bookings; it’s certainly worth asking. And so that you’re comparing apples with apples: remember that the cost for a hotel includes furniture, service and the decor on site… and the cost for an “empty shell” venue is just that with a lot of add-ons.

Well, looking over what I just wrote up for you, I am a bit concerned that you are now more overwhelmed than ever… don’t despair! Get started, and if you find it hard, email me:


Create the Perfect Team – and Enjoy the California Coast!

Today I had the honor and the pleasure to coordinate another elegant luncheon for WIPA (Wedding Industry Professionals Association) – as the Events Chair for Northern California it’s my task to do that four times a year, and I absolutely love it!

After our 2014 kick-off meeting at the Mandarin-Oriental SF, it was time for a quintessential Californian beachside retreat… which we found in the quaint little town of Half Moon Bay. Our luncheon was hosted by Cetrella Restaurant, locally renowned for its excellent Mediterranean cuisine, and nominated for a much-deserved Michelin star four years in a row!

cetrella facade


The day began with Cocktail Hour and “Meet & Greet” in the lounge, with wine and hors d’oeuvres and with jazz piano tunes by Lee Allen.


Guests could “shoot” their own keepsakes in Oran Cohen’s Night Owl open-air-style photo booth – not only good for the “goofy” kind, but also for beautiful portraits and group shots.

What’s next? Let’s consult our program booklets! Elegantly designed by Vellum & Vogue and beautifully printed by StationeryHQ, they set the tone for the day.

Program title page

As the program said:  then it was time for “continuous learning!” True to WIPA’s dedication to ongoing education of members (and not-yet members alike), we welcomed the speaker of the day, Tina Moran, event planner extraordinaire at her company Oh So Swank!

Tina Moran Color

Drawing on two decades of industry experience,(and aided by Fantasy Sound‘s A/V set-up) Tina presented, “Creating the Perfect Team.” She touched on how to optimize vendor interactions, how to streamline the workflow with clients and how to navigate the treacherous waters of “legalese…” – we all took a lot of food for thought home!

Speaking of food… that was the reward immediately following Tina’s presentation! And what delicious food that was – beet salad followed by juicy roast chicken on risotto – everyone was simply “digging in!” To enhance the experience, we had a lot of beautiful decor: specialty linens in matching patterns and colors (ivory, taupe, mustard yellow) from Napa Valley Linens and centerpieces by Stems Floral Boutique in vibrant, summery colors and rustic design that perfectly complemented the texture and style of the linens.


WMRphoto_03To top it off, twinkling stars from Glimmers Inc. played party favors – dressed up in little organza bags today; but they are really in their element submerged in champagne (they are fully FDA-approved!) and sparkling from within.

Over lunch, the traditional WIPA raffle took place, with generous prizes: five gift certificates for make-up instruction from Wowpretty Salon, a voucher for a Hornblower dinner cruise, and another one for a stay at Costanoa eco resort. We had seven beaming winners today!

The real treat for everyone, however, was still to come! After lunch, guests were shuttled in a luxurious van (by City Express Limousine Service) to Cetrella’s sister property, Liquid Sky, just 10 minutes south of Half Moon Bay, but seemingly in a different world! And the Weather Gods were smiling on us…


vista point

Perched on a cliff overlooking the Ocean, Liquid Sky is a dramatic wedding venue for up to 25o guests – with breathtakingly beautiful views.

Our guests today could enjoy these views from Liquid Sky’s patio, curled up in chic and oh-so-comfortable lounge sofas and chairs from Hartmann Studios – of course with tables and market umbrellas and colorful pillows and and and… to make it picture-perfect!



Magnolia Jazz Band under band leader Robbie Schlosser (here getting ready) performed …


… on the patio to the delight of the guests, who enjoyed dessert from Sweet Springs Rental‘s sky-blue nostalgic gelato cart accompanied by heavenly coffee from Travelin’ Joe‘s espresso bar.


Last but not least, the memories of this very special day will be kept fresh by Wendy Maclaurin Richardson‘s photos and Michael Loeb‘s video of today’s event. Thank you to all our generous sponsors and contributors – it was wonderful!


A Year in Glorious Wedding Dresses: All My Brides!

Happy New Year to all my readers, and, of course, to all my brides (and grooms) for whom 1/1/14 marks their first New Year as husband and wife!

Traditionally, the transition to a new year always invites to also look back to the year we just completed, and I’d like to follow that tradition – with a twist! Let’s look back to the glorious dresses my ever-so-creative and chic brides chose for their Great Day.

And the winner is… no, no, that’s up to each and every one of you who the winner is! I can only tell you the winner by numbers, and that is the classic A-line dress with a fitted bodice, still close to the body around the hips, and gently flaring below to a more or less dramatic train. Universally flattering, this style is quite versatile – embellished with ruching, lace, embroidery, appliqués, made from various materials, and with necklines as different as “sweetheart” or “asymmetrical, “with trains of varying lengths, not two A-line dresses are alike. Have a look:

Stacys dress


Kimens dress

Taras dress

Then there are the “trumpet” gowns – basically a more form-fitting A-line close to the body down to nearly knee-height with a flare below the knee.

Natashas dressHere in precious lace – and the next one in silk sateen

with a long, long train:

Tinas dress

Here comes an asymmetrical neckline – quite unique!

Valeries dress

Surprisingly, none of my brides chose a classical ballgown style – nor a “mermaid” dress, either (mermaid dresses are figure-hugging down to mid-calf height and require – let’s face it – nothing less but a supermodel figure! And even then they are not for the faint of heart!). But what else my brides chose definitely deserves your attention.

We had the demure, elegant, covered-up style:

Peggys dress

… and a nostalgic look (a family heirloom dress, nothing less!)

Cherice dress


One of my brides had her dress custom-tailored with a dramatic back and a lace “overcoat” to wear as a cover-up for the ceremony:

Virginias dress backvirginias dress frontAnother one wore a feathery, bead-embroidered confection that could have passed as an elegant cocktail dress:

Cassies dressCassies dress 2

The floor-length shift dress made a come-back in high style and elegance, the first one by Reem Acra…

Alexas dress


… and this one by Jin Wang;Janes dress

And last, but certainly not least, the two “stunners” in our show!

Number one: a Vera Wang dress …

Diahanns dress

and number two: an ultra-luxurious gown of pale champagne silk duchesse with precious lace appliqué and a dramatic train:

Sherris dress


I bet you are! And now – pick your own very favorite!

If You Are Going to San Francisco… Sherri and Zenon’s Joyful Wedding Celebration

Sherri and Zenon had already spent a whole decade of their lives together when they took the plunge – to plan and get married! One thing was clear: it had to be something special. Really special! A destination wedding… and what would it be? “If you are going to San Francisco, be sure to wear – flowers in your hair…” That was it. San Francisco. Quite a distance from their “home base” in Canada! And since that was so, they needed a coordinator to help them plan it all from afar – and that honor fell to my company, A Day Like No Other!  We started planning at the beginning of the year, and yesterday all our efforts were rewarded with a beautiful, memorable wedding celebration at the historic General’s Residence at Fort Mason.

For our bride, the day began with a beauty session at the Omni Hotel: Marine Vaisset of Belle by Marine enhanced Sherri’s beautiful features, her milk-white skin and reddish-blonde hair, into an ethereal, classical style – and into a radiant bride! And of course, she “made sure to wear – flowers in her hair…”


Here is Sherri’s impressive all-red bouquet by Tutti Fiori:


Final touches…


Sherri had chosen a dramatic silk dress with delicate lace appliqué and a regal train:

stunning dressHere she’s taking a peek immediately before the “First Look:”

stunning dress 2Coming down the stairs…

first look 1… to a very emotional moment for both of them!

first look 2Then it was time for pre-ceremony photos on a tour across the City in a vintage red-and-silver Rolls Royce – which made for a decidedly stylish entrance at the couple’s ceremony and reception venue, the General’s Residence at Fort Mason.

arrived 2The ceremony was held on the back lawn overlooking the San Francisco Bay…

ceremony from distance

… with a good fifty friends and family members in attendance, all of whom had come all the way from Canada; and officiated by Rev. John Sullivan. And here comes the bride, escorted by her proud Dad:

here comes the bride

“I do!”


“…. and pronounce you – husband and wife!”

husband and wife

A golden evening glow over the Bay turned the scene outerworldly beautiful…

evening glow


evening glow 2

… while guests enjoyed cocktails and, soon enough, a plated, French inspired dinner by La Bonne Cuisine, accompanied by soft music provided by Love in the Mix.

table setting

Every detail contributed to the elegance and glamour of the evening, from the mantelpiece decor…


… to the display of wedding favors (fragrant artisanal soaps)



One last photo with their very happy wedding planner…


and then Sherri and Zenon  invited their guests to an after party (transportation courtesy of City Express Limousine Service) where they would be dancing the night away.





ACPWC Napa Spring Tour – What a Day!

As my faithful readers know, I graduated from ACPWC (Association of Certified Professional Wedding Consultants) and also earned my “Professional Wedding Consultant” title there – my solid foundation for my work as a wedding planner and designer, my starting point and everyday resource. I loved that school! But ACPWC is way more than only a school – it’s a nationwide professional organization for wedding industry professionals with a continuing education program for members. Part of that are organized  site and venue visits. And here we are: the Spring Tour this year – a whole day of wedding venue visits – went to the SF Wine Country. To Napa Valley, to be exact; membership chair Angie Mack had again outdone herself in putting all that together! Deborah Moody, our tireless Executive Director, came with us, and Social Media Chair Miranda Meisenbach recorded and posted right away what we ladies were up to during the day.

And here we go: starting point was the Springhill Suites Marriott Napa Valley hotel, where we were not only treated to a tour of the property, but to breakfast and a Welcome Bag as well!

It’s a newer property offering the Wine Country Wedding experience at a moderate price point, but with everything one expects from a Wine Country getaway – pool and fitness center, 100 all-suite guest rooms, ball rooms and a tent for weddings up to 250 guests, as well as a ceremony lawn where a Tuscan-style setting is a beautiful backdrop for a wedding ceremony.

OR – the ceremony could be held at the quaint St. Joan of Arc Cathedral Church in nearby Yountville…

It has retained the simple charm of a little village church “that Time forgot…”

Another unexpected discovery was to follow right away: stylish North Block hotel in Yountville. Never heard of it? Me neither… it’s got a new owner, a new name, and a beautiful new makeover and concept for weddings!

With the nostalgic appeal of a Mediterranean village, a central plaza where the onsite restaurant puts out tables and chairs and where brides can say their vows at the antique fountain on the plaza, the 20-room luxury boutique hotel is a total secret even to wedding industry insiders. A beautiful pool was beckoning … (as you can see, it was the perfect hot summer day in the Wine Country!)

… and the hotel’s Redd Wood restaurant looked just as inviting, with lots of French bistro character and unique design touches:

North Block is, by the way, dog-friendly for ceremony and outside cocktail hour, so bring your furry friend, as ring bearer or as witness to your nuptials! North Block also offers a unique approach to planning an intimate Wine Country Wedding – a hotel buyout. Just imagine to have the whole little “village” to yourselves and your closest friends and family who’d occupy the guest rooms; you could be married right there on the plaza, have your cocktail hour there and dine in that wonderfully nostalgic “pizzeria” (where the chef will customize your gourmet menu – don’t be fooled by the “pizzeria” sign in the window!!) – and then you can dance under the stars. North Block can accommodate weddings of ca. 50 guests – so, small affairs only – but that they do in high style!

After lunch at Pacific Blues Cafe on the Yountville “town square,” we went to visit the Domaine Chandon winery where exquisite “bubblies” are produced in the French method, “methode Champenoise.” Go and try the finished product – it’s delicious!

The Champagne develops in huge barrels – or rather, tanks! – it’s really impressive:

… and then you can sit back in the ultramodern tasting room and enjoy, enjoy, enjoy…

… which we did, later! First we toured the beautiful property which is extremely sought-after for elegant weddings. Small wonder…

… especially since only six (SIX!!) can be held there per year! But just look at the possibilities:

Shaded lawns with views of the valley, intimate patios and grottos, a dining room (Etoile, a true star – of the Michelin variety, no less!) in a streamlined modern design – Chandon can accommodate elegant weddings from 12 to 120. A dream! And then we wrapped up with their rosé Champagne on the patio. We could have just stayed there for the rest of the day…

… but more site visits were awaiting! Next stop: the combined property of Vintage Estate (super dog-friendly!!) and Villagio Inn and Spa –  another Italian/French fantasy with more than 200 beautiful guest rooms, flowing waterways, palm trees and blooming flowers everywhere.

It’s a whole little Mediterranean town in itself with restaurants, pools, and a world-class spa… and what’s even more, the “old” spa building was converted into a get-ready house for the bridal party, with a sitting room, mani/pedi/hair/make-up room, its own steam sauna and pool AND its own kitchen! Can be rented for the whole wedding day… simply fabulous! Ceremonies for small parties as well as for large weddings can be accommodated on site…

… followed by cocktails, dining and dancing – under the stars or in the rustic-nostalgic “Barrel Room” until two in the morning…

Make it a whole destination wedding weekend for yourselves and for your guests – so much to do! There is a golf course, tennis courts, pools, the spa and the restaurants, the quaint little town of Yountville and the beauty of the Wine Country beyond. It’ll be unforgettable for everyone!

Last visit of the day was to Black Stallion Winery on the world-famous Silverado Trail:

Situated on the grounds of an old equestrian estate, Black Stallion Winery offers a spectacular setting for a California Wine Country Wedding experience. Terraces and patios and several indoor spaces – including the historic Barrel Room – lend themselves to flights of wedding design fancy, blooming, romantic, rustic, nostalgic – as you like it!

Not even to mention Black Stallion’s world-class wines to accompany any meal… your guests will be in Bacchus’ Heaven! (as were we ourselves, after all that delicious wine tasting…)

With that, our excursion concluded – we were all so full of new impressions, exciting (wedding) possibilities, so exhausted and so happy! What an incredible tour!

Hot News from the Four Seasons SF Wedding Fair!

I just returned from another glamorous Wedding Fair – at the luxurious Four Seasons Hotel in downtown San Francisco. Stepping into the foyer, guests were greeted by Synchronicity Strings, a classical string quartet, performing wedding classics – when I arrived, it was Pachelbel’s Canon in D. My all-time favorite!

Floating on the wings of this beautiful tune, and entering the first exhibit room, I was totally blown away by the floral artistry of my friend Laura Little of Floramor Studios. Laura had again outdone herself… this time, taking her inspiration from Showbiz stars like Britney Spears – just have a look! Her “Britney” table, my total favorite, took a full three days to put together:

… and there was so much more to see – here’s the “Taylor Swift” table:

Just one more:

Laura is just sooo creative! Can’t wait to work with her!

The next wonderful discovery was awaiting right in the next room: Juillard-educated harpist Bertina Mitchell with a wide repertoire ranging from Bach to Debussy, experienced at accompanying wedding ceremonies from prelude to recessional… and what could be more romantic at a wedding than harp music?

Right across from Bertina, Classic Party Rentals went right over the uber-glamorous top with this table arrangement of shimmering cream damask linens, crystal-encrusted chair covers, and golden flatware, gold-rimmed wine glasses, gold-beaded chargers… and, to top it off, one of Classic’s fabulous appliquéd linens playing wedding dress in the background!

From extreme elegance to sweet nostalgia: an ice cream cart, lovingly hand-crafted by John of Sweet Springs Rentals! But then John went far beyond nostalgia and our sweet childhood memories and created decidedly grown-up ice cream flavors to be served from this cute cart – and I can tell you: my favorite, blackberry Cabernet (!!), is to die for! John has even more grown-up delicacies to offer from equally romantic settings: an Espresso Bar, hand-crafted from reclaimed wood; and a Margarita machine and chocolate fountain. Indulge till you drop!!

And on to more discoveries: custom-made arbors!

No more run-of-the-mill standard arbors! Arbors Ever After offers not only a selection of handcrafted steel constructions, lovingly decorated with leaves and flowers, and powder coated for 25 years of durability in the couple’s garden – they will also custom-design one for a couple, starting with just an idea, a vision, a wedding theme – either using steel or natural materials like wood and branches. Now, here’s something really new!

“Custom” is certainly a big trend, in every aspect of a wedding – but never more preciously so than with custom jewelry. Vittoria d’Aste-Surcouf is an accomplished jewelry designer who three years ago followed her passion for “all things wedding” and since then has been focusing her creative energies exclusively on bridal jewelry.


She is working in precious metals, diamond, gemstones and semi-precious stones, and her pieces are truly one-of-a-kind: my favorites are her yellow diamond pieces….

and a pair of delicate chandelier earrings inspired by the intricate floral beading of a bride’s wedding dress:

Aren’t these beautiful beyond words?


More pretty (AND tasty!) things were awaiting at Alaa and Maya Labban’s Choco Vogue display:

The two transform European chocolates into sparkling gems for glamorous wedding favors, re-packaging and decorating them in any design desired – taking into account wedding style and colors… I can’t imagine any more attractive decor for a dinner napkin at a wedding reception.

Last, but certainly not least, there were the haute bridal couture gowns by Jin Wang to admire:

The designer behind one of the Bay Area’s leading bridal salons offers her own designs as well as the best of the best in bridal couture, and she showed all these dream dresses throughout the Bridal Faire:

Those gowns are dreams come true – only problem: which one to choose… that’s why brides change into a different gown from ceremony to reception to dance party! Now I get it…

All in all, what a day of fabulous discoveries!

Live from: Modern Luxury Weddings Bridal Faire, Ritz-Carlton, San Francisco

I just came home from the Ritz in San Francisco where I attended the Modern Luxury Weddings Bridal Faire – and I am still totally speechless, overwhelmed and trying to sort all my impressions! So many fabulous vendors, beautiful displays, endless possibilities… where to start?

Maybe with what comes first when embarking on the trip to the altar: an engagement ring! Derco Jewelers offers your tailor-made  solution with a myriad of settings to choose from for another myriad of “rocks” to set in them… and if that’s not enough “one-of-a-kind” for your taste, they’ll even create a one-of-a-kind, entirely-yours design for you!

Here is one example of their work for one of my recent brides, a gorgeous sapphire engagement ring, combined with a diamond wedding band:

And then – what’s next? You need a date, and you need invitations. Hyegraph offers a wide range of calligraphy-style options (it’s machine calligraphy but absolutely looks like “the real thing!”), also in letterpress and heavy-stock varieties – very beautiful and very polished:

And then you need a venue, of course! Let’s start with the gorgeous venue hosting today’s event, one of San Francisco’s most distinguished wedding addresses, the Ritz-Carlton! (

Choose their beautiful patio for your outdoor ceremony for up to 250 guests and one of their ballrooms (capacity up to 500 guests!) for your reception. Nothing says “luxury” and “elegance” in the City like the Ritz!

If “exotic” is more your style – and maybe you have a special relationship to the Indian culture, here is your insider tip: Ranjan Dey’s New Delhi Restaurant – Ranyan has been an ambassador for the Indian culture in America for decades, and he is, hands-down, the undisputed specialist for Indian catering and weddings!

But there are, of course, so many more options around San Francisco, first and foremost in the wine-growing regions.

There is Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery and Palm Event Center in Pleasanton, accommodating big weddings in a mediterranean-upscale rustic setting;

there is the Vintage Estate and Villagio in Napa, with guest accommodations and complete catering services, if desired;

Vintage Estate


the famed Solage in Calistoga, also with guest studios, catering and a Spa (and it’s surprisingly affordable!);

there is Lake Tahoe Golf Course ( in South Lake Tahoe (offering complete packages and literally unlimited guest count – you can celebrate on the golf course!)

and all of Carmel Valley with Bernardus Lodge (offering complete ceremony and dinner setup, exquisite cuisine, hotel accommodations and a spa)

and the totally new, completely renovated Quail Lodge – with a ceremony lawn for up 1,000 guests (!), award-winning cuisine, golf-course, guest accommodations and entertainment. And all of that, also, at affordable rates.

BUT do you know what’s by far the best about all these wonderful venues in the Greater SF Bay Area? You’d never guess it – they are all dog-friendly! Couples may bring their beloved canine companion with them for their Great Day. I love it!

Now that you know where you’ll celebrate, you need to make your Great Day special: with flowers, unusual desserts, and the totally unexpected touch:

Floramor floral and event design provides the Ritz-Carlton and Four Seasons hotels in SF with their floral arrangements – that should tell you something already! Their bouquets are just so elegant!

And the centerpieces on the “for show” tables at the Ritz (go back and look at them again – and look at the closeup below) were all by Laura, owner of Floramor, above center. Special touches: a few drops of blue coloring in the water filling the clear vases – for a discreet hue matching the elegant tablecloths – and pearls suspended therein… simply gorgeous!

Should you be looking especially for a romantic, fragrant, pastel bouquet, you might also want to check out La Martine:

Looking for that special touch for your dessert buffet? Here’s one beautiful option: cake pops from Sweet Lauren Cakes – so pretty, so tasty and totally customizable to your wedding style and colors!

Last not least, the WOW surprise for your guests, the charming and totally unexpected idea, the perfect backdrop for those one-of-a-kind photos: a glittering rickshaw from Cabrio Taxi! Here I am being treated to a free joyride around the Ritz ballroom:

Don’t forget a photographer to capture all those precious moments! He/she needs to be an artist with a perfect technique, with the gift to be totally invisible during your event and with a sunny disposition at all times! Take for example my friend Auey Santos of photograffiti: “shooting with open eyes, an open mind & an open heart!” Here she is:

What’s still missing? Right – the perfect Honeymoon! For me personally the ultimate Honeymoon destination is Polynesia – and maybe Fiji and a detour to Australia or New Zealand thrown in. When I visited the region first, nearly 30 years ago, it was all still very quiet, dreamy, romantic, and un-touristy. Things have changed and are still changing at a rapid pace, with more hotels and resorts coming to the islands every year. So what you need is an expert with an intimate knowledge of those romantic hidden gem islands, so far overlooked by mainstream tourism – in short, the remaining pockets of Polynesian paradise.

May I present: Rick Garrett of weddymoons is your specialist. He’ll put together your complete trip including airfare, accommodations, local transportation, excursions – you name it. He must know: he’s going to Polynesia at least once a year to check things out. Lucky guy!

What a day… and what an incredible selection of vendors! Happy planning, dear 2013 brides!




You can see examples of my work in my Portfolio section.

Please also look up my 5-star reviews on yelp and Wedding Wire!

And here is what my clients and colleagues have to say about me:

Thank you Jutta!  You were amazing!  We really appreciate all the work you and your assistant did on Saturday!  You were both life savers and really made our wedding a day we will always remember! Thank you again! 

Nancy and James D. (newlyweds)

We want you to feel absolutely comfortable with your choice of wedding planner – and that’s why we invite you to check out what our past clients and also our industry colleagues have to say about us. Here are a few of many comments:

We serendipitous-ly met Jutta (A Day Like No Other) while wine tasting at our wedding venue (Thomas Fogarty Winery). She was organizing a wedding for that weekend and was at the venue prepping. She introduced herself to us, showing us her timeline for the wedding and I was immediately blown away. She was able to plan the wedding day down to almost 5 minute increments, kept to an incredibly timely and organized timetable. Honestly, that is what got me and I emailed her that night asking if she was available for my wedding day (9/1/19).

After talking with her we decided to go with the month of coordination. It worked well for us as I booked most the vendors myself and felt comfortable handling most of the coordination leading up to the big day. Even though I only had Jutta “the month of ” she was ALWAYS available for questions and concerns. Throughout the planning process I would email her contracts for vendors and she would review them to make sure there weren’t major holes. Come the month of the wedding Jutta and I emailed weekly, to ensure every detail of our wedding was executed perfectly.

Jutta and A Day Like No Other went above and beyond my expectations with our wedding (everything went smoothly and flawlessly) but we also started the wedding 15 minutes AHEAD of schedule. This was amazing because we were able to gain 15 minutes of dancing at the end. The best part of Jutta and her team was the consideration she showed my brother. My brother is severely developmentally delayed, in a wheelchair, incontinent, etc. Jutta and her team showed extreme sensitivity to Patrick, his whereabouts, and his comfort. Patrick was not able to be on the main lawn for family photos, so Jutta ensured he was available down in the Hill House for pictures. Lastly, we had many left over floral centerpieces after the wedding, so Jutta donated them to a local memory care facility. This wasn’t in the plan, but I was so appreciative of her thoughtfulness. Jutta and her team are amazing. I consider myself very type-A and even I was blown away by her organization skills. My mom said it perfectly “she should charge more, she was worth every penny and more!”

Natalie W., just-married bride

Thank you so much for coordinating our wonderful event – we are so happy with how smoothly everything went and can’t thank you enough for making everything happen so wonderfully!! Even though it was a rainy and misty day, we still enjoyed every minute of the day and we, along with many guests, thought the rain made the day mystical and magical. It was truly a day to remember and like no other!!)

Christina and Cuyler L. (newlyweds)

We had the best night of our lives last night. Thank you for making sure everything was executed perfectly and in a timely manner. We couldn’t have done it without you! 

Natalie W. (bride)

We first reached out to Jutta almost 10 months ago for our August wedding, after having already selected Thomas Fogarty Winery our venue and booked our caterer. We had our initial Skype consultation with her and immediately knew that we wanted her as our wedding coordinator. We selected her Partial Planning and Design package, and she did an absolutely amazing job. She was prompt with emails and almost always replied to us within a couple of hours (we don’t know how she does it!).

Having worked with Fogarty many times and experienced in the wedding-planning industry, she was knowledgeable about our venue and provided excellent vendor recommendations including DJ, ceremony musician, florist, desert, and makeup artist, all of whom are a pleasure to work with. She also has great taste for design/aesthetics and helped us immensely with many small details on the wedding day that we were too overwhelmed to deal with (like name cards). She made fantastic suggestions for several aspects of the wedding, many of which we have not even thought of or knew that we should think about. She was proactive in reaching out to us and making sure that we checked off things that we need to do especially in the 2-3 months leading up to our wedding. Both of us are working long hours and clocking in 70-80 hours per week at work, but the tasks that Jutta gave us were manageable even with our schedule. She was methodical, flexible, and all around a great person to work with. She listened to us and our wishes (some of which were quite unconventional) and made it happen.

On our wedding day, Jutta and her assistants (Melinda and Stephanie) really came through and worked seamlessly with our other vendors to ensure that the wedding proceeded smoothly. She constructed a day of timeline that was reasonable and easy to follow; we did not feel rushed at any point during our wedding day. We were able to spend our time mingling with our guests and enjoy our wedding day worry-free.  

Overall, we are very happy with Jutta and we would highly recommend her to anyone!

Josh A. (groom)

It was a delight to look at your blog and it made me smile to relive the beauty of the day. Your vast knowledge and experience was essential in bringing together both the big details like various vendors as well as all the small finishing touches. I was able to relax and enjoy the wedding day knowing you were in charge!
I’m very grateful to have met you and collaborated with you…
Janie G. (Mother of the Bride)
Thanks Jutta! What fun to read [the blog feature of our wedding]! 
While we are back to work and busy as can be we are sill reminiscing on how perfect everything was for us. Thank you again! You helped us make our fairy tale come true :). 
Laura E., bride
Thank you for making our wedding possible! You are forever a special part of our lives 🙂
Warmly, s&j (newlyweds)
THANK YOU Jutta for always being such an Incredible coordinator 😁
Your attention to detail is unparalleled and we Truly appreciate it!!!
Toast Catering
Hi Jutta, many, MANY thanks to YOU for making the day PERFECT for the couple and ALL that were present!  
Melvin F. (family member/officiant)

Thank you so much for everything you did for us on our special day. It was absolutely perfect. 
Thanks again-  it was an AMAZING DAY!!!!!!

Julia and Alex (newlyweds)

Wow how wonderful Jutta! I loved reading [the feature of our wedding on your blog], made me cry!!! Thank you for helping us out with such a wonderful celebration!!! The day far exceeded our expectations.
Kate and Aaron (newlyweds)
Thank you all so much for your help planning and executing our wedding.  We had an absolutely wonderful time, and we really really appreciated all your help with the timeline, and coordination, and logistics.  It was such a great experience, and everything went even more smoothly than we imagined!
Marian and Aaron (newlyweds)
Thanks again for all your help with our wedding. It was everything we wanted it to be and more- and you were a big part of why everything went so smoothly! We really appreciate all your effort and are truly glad that we had you as our wedding planner!
You helped send us off in to married life with the feeling that all of family and friends enjoyed a great day of festivities. There’s nothing more we can ask:)
Caroline and Merrick (newlyweds)

Dear Jutta, You were wonderful! Thank you very much for everything!


Lydia (Mother of the Bride)

Thank you, Jutta! I had THE MOST spectacular night. Every detail was perfect and on point! Jason and I are so happy. I can’t believe that that was our wedding?! I’ve received tons of messages complimenting the ceremony and reception. Thank you again for making our event A Day Like No Other!! Much love xx

Taryn and Jason B., newlyweds

Thank you, Jutta, for everything! We had the best day ever and many thanks to you and the team for helping make it go without a hitch!

Lauren N., just-married bride

Dear Jutta, thank you so much for all your hard work on our wedding. We greatly appreciate your thoughtfulness and attention to detail.

Sandra and Jacob S., newlyweds

 Jutta, you were marvelous from start to finish, we would and will recommend you to our closest of friends and family as we seem to hear of new exciting engagements so very often these days. On our honeymoon while reliving the special day we kept finding ourselves saying, oh and who and how did that aspect of the wedding get done – clearly you were doing all kinds of amazing things behind our back day-of so as to not worry us and make sure it all came together so perfectly. And really? Kimen’s dress rips part way through the night and you magically appear with all the tools and knowhow to fix it in minutes, this is one of many impressive moments, I know, but a pretty memorable one.  It’s all truly remarkable, so much you did above and beyond to make everything and everyone come together so effectively without worrying us when avoidable. That’s real devotion and capability that lead us right into and through the perfect wedding. And our guests were clearly floored by it all. We are forever grateful to you and please  feel free to use this email as a referral to anyone who is lucky enough to find you and have a chance to retain you. We’d also of course be happy to post our thoughts / ratings wherever you’d like…
We are so very thankful for all that you did for us and in such a seamless way that left nothing to chance wherever chance could be controlled or mitigated. Simply remarkable.

 Robert W., groom

Thanks so much, Jutta!!

Really really from the bottom of my heart, you helped give us the wedding of our dreams, even in the face if everything crazy that we threw at you or showed up last second! Thanks so much for your quick stepping up and directing of the timeline! Everything we wanted was literally in the wedding!!!! It all happened!! You got us there!! I have no words!! You seriously helped us pull of the wedding of the year! Our guests were so so so happy!!! We’re not sure what’s going on with Emerson, but we are not going to let it diminish our high. We will figure it out and thanks for your help and observations. 
 You guys did a fab job!!!!! Thank you thank you thank you again!!!
Carolyn T., bride

Jutta Lammerts and her assistant Kelsey were absolute rock stars, ensuring our wedding day was executed perfectly! Jutta pays attention to the important details while her calm demeanor allowed my husband and me to take a step back and enjoy the evening. They went above and beyond for us, we can’t speak highly enough to the professionalism and commitment from start to finish. Thank you Jutta!!!!

Marissa V., bride

I’m so glad I found Jutta!

Jutta met with me over coffee for the first time and explained to me what her day-of wedding coordinator responsibility would be. I knew instantly that she’s exactly what I was looking for: calm, organized, detail-oriented, smart and reacts fast. Jutta met with my husband to be and his mom a few nights later and won them over for the same reasons.

Jutta checked in with me a few months before the wedding making sure that I have chosen all my vendors. When I needed suggestions and referrals, she was there to help. During the month before the wedding, Jutta emailed my vendors with drafts of timeline and made sure they had what they needed. A few vendors commented on how organized she was and were all impressed.

Jutta showed up for the rehearsal and waited patiently for all the wedding party to arrive. She was great with little kids and explained to them how important their duties were. Maybe they understood her, on our wedding day, they marched down the aisle with no glitch!

The day of the wedding, Jutta stopped by my house in the morning to make sure the makeup artist was there and everything was good. She assured me that I was in good hands and I don’t need to worry about anything! She was right! I enjoyed the day of my wedding knowing Jutta was there to take care of things. What impressed me the most, was when our wedding ended, Jutta stayed till past midnight to make sure the take down was done completely. Jutta goes above and beyond to make sure everything is perfect.

I am happy I found Jutta. You would be happy to have Jutta there for you on your big day!

Shaina H., bride

Jutta was the very first person we booked for our wedding and it was a decision we were continuously grateful for throughout the planning of our wedding. The decisions were endless and the details were numerous – Jutta kept us on track at every turn to ensure the day of our wedding was everything we’d hoped it would be. From the minute you meet Jutta, you know you’re in good hands. She’s professional, organized and always on. She provided amazing recommendations – from the venue to vendors to things as simple as our guest book – her contacts, experience and overall calm helped ensure our wedding day was magical. We would strongly recommend Jutta and her services to help you plan your wedding – she’s an absolute pro …we can’t imagine having done our wedding without her!

Laura M., bride

My dear bride chose Jutta to help with wedding planning and coordination.  At first, since we planned a modest wedding with plenty of help from friends, I thought: do we really need a wedding coordinator?  Now I can honestly say that we could not have done it without Jutta.  She was extremely organized, patient and helpful, and was a veritable fountain of clever ideas that made our event unique and successful.  On the day of the event, it was a huge relief to know that this capable woman was watching over every detail of the proceedings and taking that responsibility from our shoulders.  The moral of our story is: if you even suspect you might need Jutta’s help — you do!

Lincoln S., groom

Today, you have wrapped up their love story in sparkles and love beams for us to cherish forever. Wish I had another daughter to marry 🙂 so I could attend another over the top, dreams come true, hearts filled with joy beautiful day! I will NEVER forget this one. Xoxox You are THE Best! 

Many blessings to you beautiful Jutta, 
With an abundance of Love and Gratitude, 
Bonnie xo
Bonnie H., mother of the bride

Where to start?!? The whole Day Like No Other staff are extremely friendly yet, forward enough to deal with the high stress of planning a wedding. It was the most important day of our lives and they made sure to make us feel such. Furthermore, they shield us from the stress and anxiety of dealing with vendors, decor, etc. The planning was a breeze! They were very organized, kept detailed journals and to-do lists with deadlines, allowing us to work as a team to plan our event. They were so knowledgeble about every detail, and even brought to light things we didn’t even think of. 

Lastly, they are extremely connected within the community. They have a Rolodex of the top vendors in the industry. It doesn’t matter if your budget is small or huge, they will search within their network to meet your needs. But if they don’t have the connection, Jutta and team will do the endless research to approve a vendor to make sure they meet your standards. 

Jutta and her staff come highly recommended. We searched for months for the right venue and event planning company and would be as bold as to say, Day Like No Other is the best event planning agency in the Bay Area. 

Francisco T., groom

Dear Jutta,

Thank you for making my wedding day non-stressful! You’re a wonderful woman…

Michele B., bride

Dear Jutta,

You rock!  You absolutely rock!  What a pleasure knowing and working with you!

I am so happy we met! 

Annette S., florist


It’s you the maestro  that needs the thanks….always enjoy working with you…..XO

Deidre R., florist
Hi Jutta,
Thanks for all your help! You made everything smooth and it all exceeded my expectation! Erik and I still can’t believe it all happened 🙂 it feels like a dream!

Shaina H., bride

Jutta, you were awesome, to say the least. Thanks for being a great leader and coordinating the day.
It was a pleasure working with all of you. I look forward to being on your team in the future.
Monique A., lighting designer

Jutta, thank you for being the woman on the spot at our wedding at all times! You’re phenomenal…

Lincoln S., groom

Jutta, WIPA USA has a great friend in you! You and Melanie not only knocked yourselves out producing a fabulous meeting at the Mandarin Oriental, San Francisco, but your subsequent blog post here is so comprehensive and beautiful. You really do things right!

Thomas H., videographer

What an incredible job Jutta did.  Everything was well-thought out and incredibly organized.  As a wedding photographer, I have the chance to work with dozens of different planners and it is incredibly refreshing to work with someone like Jutta!  It makes everyone’s day (bride + groom, other vendors) so much better, which translates into an excellent experience. 

If you are still deciding on a planner, give Jutta a call and just chat with her.  I know that you will be impressed.

Mark T., photographer

Jutta: Thank you so much for everything; we feel extremely blessed to have this opportunity to have your services, enthusiasm and love for your job … This is truly a fairy tale wedding, despite of the amounts of money we will or won’t spend. – Yes, Jutta, let me echo Francisco. We really are just thrilled about how everything is coming along and feel so blessed to have you working so hard for us. Thank you!! 

Lauren C. and Francisco T., bride and groom

My 09/15/12 wedding went off without a hitch thanks to Jutta of A Day Like No Other.  I honestly don’t think I could have done it without her! A bride has about a thousand tasks to accomplish and details to think about, but thanks to Jutta, I was able to just enjoy my special day.  On my wedding day and throughout the wedding planning process, Jutta was on top of everything– There was not one detail that she let slip by. And, she went above and beyond helping us plan and create décor that fit perfectly with our “vintage San Francisco glamour” themed wedding.  Jutta truly has an eye for elegance, is very knowledgeable about the wedding process, and has amazing ideas that will ensure a spectacular event.  

More than that, however, Jutta was a pleasure to work with. She was always very responsive when I contacted her, and proactive about reminding me of decisions that needed to be made or tasks that needed to be completed.  For a busy bride like me, it was great to have her keeping me on track.

Alexa W., bride

We recently worked with Jutta (who was amazing) at a wedding just last month. First off just wanted to say everything went together perfectly. From the emails before hand, to us arriving and being shown exactly where to set-up. Also, she was very helpful through out the entire event, checking on us and just making sure everything was ok.

Sai K., vendor

My wife and I loved every minute of our wedding and Jutta was THE driving force behind the amazing evening. She was professional, punctual, and very easy to contact. She brought her own ideas to the table, but also really listened to us and honored our ideas. I would highly recommend her!

Isaac J., groom

She’s positive, accommodating and very friendly to her customers as well as the staff. Every little detail was spot on but most importantly she came up with creative ideas that made the day memorable.

Eunice B., Maid of Honor

I had the pleasure of working with Jutta a couple of weeks ago. 

First and foremost, she is very professional. She was always quick to answer her phone and answered any question I had. When I arrived, she helped me get situated, brought my up to speed and kept me updated on all of the big moments (very important since I was in charge of video).  Despite how hectic a wedding can be, she was very calm and collected throughout the evening. 

I honestly thought the event went perfect! I have done weddings where things were a mess and no one knew what was going on but Jutta kept it together and kept things flowing in a very steady pace. 

I would definitely recommend her to any couple that is thinking about getting a coordinator to assist them with their big day. With Jutta’s help, you’re going to thoroughly enjoy your big day and who doesn’t want that?!?!

Augusto L., vendor

My daughter’s wedding could not have been in more cable hands than Jutta’s. She brought an abundance of knowledge and energy to work with her, and worked as hard on our event as if it was own. Jutta is the professional to hire.

Lucinda W., mother of the bride

I am a hair and makeup artist and this is the second time I have worked with Jutta. She was one time, very responsive to the Bride’s needs…she was on top of everything. She stayed from beginning to end making sure that that  the ceremony and the reception went according to the schedule. i will recommend Jutta to any of my new Brides…

Marine V., vendor

Jutta showed great sensitivity to the bride and groom’s tastes when she set an elegant stage for [their] Wedding in San Francisco. Her online photographs attest to that. She contacted me, the cellist for the wedding, in advance to be sure I had everything I needed to perform comfortably in the lovely and very intimate garden venue. She was professional and courteous throughout the event and I would not hesitate to recommend Jutta and A Day Like No Other to future brides.

Suellen P., vendor

My wedding at the end of this September went perfectly.  My husband and I conversed with Jutta regarding the rental of our venue for the wedding ceremony.  She was patient with all of our emails and questions, she responded very quickly, gave insightful advice and recommendations for caterers and other services that we were looking into (or didn’t even think to look into).  She even took the time to show us some scenic spots around the venue’s neighborhood (of which she was familiar with) for us to use for wedding photos on our wedding day.  Jutta is very comfortable to talk to you and never felt like she was rushing us.  It was a joy working with her.  Thank you Jutta!

Melissa L., bride

We had the great pleasure of working with Jutta on a wedding we catered this past weekend.  The wedding was one of the best I have ever attended or worked on (and that is MANY!) and I feel a lot of that was because of Jutta’s fantastic organization, attitude and spirit.  She is a wonderful problem solver and tasker and it was clear that she was coming from a place of passion, not just work. If you are looking for a caring, professional person to help with your wedding, look no further!

Kristin H., vendor

Jutta from A Day Like No Other Events was an integral part of our wedding at Stern Grove in San Francisco. Jutta worked closely with us in the months leading up to the wedding to brainstorm decor ideas, coordinate vendors, and help us remember all the little details. On the day of our wedding, Jutta hit the ground running and never stopped. I swear- she was moving the entire night. She worked so hard to make sure every aspect of our evening was exactly as we had specified. Because of her hard work, my husband and I were able to relax and dance the night away. – Thank you so much for all your hard work, Jutta! We couldn’t have done it without you!

Nicole S., bride

Jutta was amazing to work with. Everything was under control and beautifully executed. She paid attention to the smallest details with confident and positive attitude. Great team player!!

Zehava D., officiant

Jutta was very helpful both before and during the wedding. She made sure that I had a schedule, all my questions were answered, and that the cupcakes I provided for the wedding were taken care of after I departed the venue. She was professional and kind, tending to all the details with poise and a smile.

Elspeth P., vendor

Jutta, the founder of A Day Like No Other, designed and coordinated my wedding in Carmel Valley, California, last summer. It was a three-day destination wedding including our dog – and guests from three continents! The whole celebration was held in three different venues, so the logistics were quite complicated. Jutta created every aspect of the design from the earliest “idea” stage to flawless execution, including custom invitations, choice of venue, choice of wedding gown, floral and cake design, ceremony and reception music, bridesmaids’ and groomsmen’s gifts, and even designed and created personalized wedding favors! She organized every aspect of the celebration, including the Rehearsal Dinner, transportation, guest accommodations, and Honeymoon booking. No detail was too tiny… Jutta worked tirelessly, and the result was a breathtakingly elegant wedding celebration that guests are still raving about. I recommend Jutta highly – for her unparalleled professionalism, work ethic, creativity, impeccable taste, and, last but not least, for her warm and friendly personality! She truly made our wedding a day neither of us will ever forget. It was the perfect wedding, or in other words “A Day Like No Other”.

 Zheng Y., bride


Thank you so much for everything you’ve done to make our wedding so special. We truly could not have pulled this off without you! We really appreciate your hard work, great ideas, organization, positive attitude, and your ability to put up with often stressed-out bride and groom. Please let us know how we can ever repay …

 A & S. M., bride and groom

 The [welcome] bags were beautiful!  Both hotels said they never had such nice bags delivered–they were a hit! …  Thanks for everything…

Kathy S., mother of the groom

Wow, you are amazing to put together all those samples… Your creativity has no limits, as I had imagined…

Jean M., wedding coordinator / colleague

Thank you for the beautiful ideas. … I love your ideas, you have a great talent.

Summer W., bride

You are really good! I can’t believe you really put this all the contacts, pictures and board together for us. It makes me feel like you really listened to me and you are taking it on like it’s your project already. It is so sweet of you! I saw the pinterest board last night and couldn’t believe you personalized it for me already. It really means a lot 🙂 Some pictures I have pinned already myself so you get what I am going for. Love the tips and ideas you suggested.

Grace C., bride

Oh Jutta, thank you so much. You have a wonderful imagination!

 Leah G., mother of the groom

Dear Jutta,

Thank you so much for all of your help! You’ve been wonderful to work with… We had an amazing wedding…

Andrea G., bride

Hello, Jutta,

We did it! We’re hitched! And it was just wonderful. Everyone was so taken with the venue – we couldn’t have asked for a better space. Moreover, we couldn’t have asked for better communication from you; you answered messages with alacrity and charm, to boot. 
Thank you for all your work along the way to make that possible.

Anna B., bride

I reviewed your links and it is obvious that you are a very talented individual. I will pass your card on and boast your competency!

Rosanna N., vendor

Thank you again … It is very refreshing to have a professional planner who does not overlook the minor details even after the event is through. Your are a visibly experienced planner and it’s appreciated in this chaotic industry. I am confident in your ability and I’m excited to put someone in your care for weddings at THE BOX SF. Looking forward to working with you in the near future.

Danielle A., onsite venue manager

I recently had the pleasure of working with Jutta for my September 2012 wedding.  She was the epitome of professionalism and, as a result of her hard work, the wedding went off without a hitch.   Throughout the wedding-planning process, Jutta stayed on top of the overall timeline while offering sage advice on even the smallest of details.  The day-of was a whirlwind, with vendors upon vendors running around working on their individual projects.  Jutta managed the team wonderfully, while keeping her eye on the big picture.  And the big picture was amazing.  I couldn’t have asked for a better day.

 Sean M., groom

Jutta was an amazing support for my wedding! I met her when visiting the Forest Hill Clubhouse, the eventual site of our wedding. After a few more visits and after posing more and more questions, she offered her services. While I was overwhelmed with details and organization at first, Jutta guided me through and helped me to take more of a creative approach. Our initial, bare minimum, idea for the decor turned into simple, easy and beautiful additions that enhanced the ceremony and party without ever diminishing what was most important to us: celebrating our union with friends and family. Jutta was great at organizing the rehearsal, wedding day, and reception and reminding me of details that I had forgotten. She was always available, extremely professional, and very amusing to work with in her no-nonsense way. Thanks to Jutta, she made our wedding the best day of our life!

Virginia S., bride

Hello Jutta,

Wow, you work fast and know your stuff!  First off, thank you so much for the email and the pinterest board … you have nailed it on so many things, ex: we have an old typewriter already, it’s a minty green color and I was already planning on using it for the guest book …  You totally nailed it, and read my mind.  
Cherice M., bride

I had the pleasure of working with Jutta over the 9-month period we had to plan our wedding – and she immediately put me at ease. She knows her stuff, she’s a great communicator, and she genuinely loves what she does – and really, what more is there to ask for?
It’s funny – until I read [the] reviews, I always had the impression that my wedding was her only concern – my emails were always answered quickly and fully, and she was always so on top of her game.
I realize now that she had quite a few other weddings going on in September – so what I was experiencing was none other than good ol’ awesome service.

I think the highest praise I can give Jutta is that I felt really taken care of – every e-mail and question was answered quickly and with great attention, and she was as invested in our wedding as we were!
She was incredibly professional but also a delight to work with – I highly recommend her; she loves what she does, and it shows.
Anna B., bride

Dear Jutta: This is with so much gratitude to you for making the party so wonderful, and being so cooperative and warm.

Leah G., mother of the groom

Dear Jutta,

The event went far more smoothly because of your gracious offer to help us with detail and to put out so many of the unexpected fires.  Please know how much I appreciate all your effort and hard work both before and during the wedding.
Carol S., mother of the groom

 Jutta’s the best wedding planner in town!

Fernando F., caterer

Jutta is a wonderful, extremely efficient, and very professional wedding planner.  I put a lot of effort into every detail of our wedding which I enjoyed, but on the day I just wanted to relax and not worry about anything, especially things happening on time, Jutta took care of everything!  
She was invariably quick to respond to each and every email and question I sent her way and made it seem like my wedding was the only thing happening in her world.  Most of all she helped me create a wedding that reflected “us” which was very important to my husband and I.
I recommend her, ten fold!

C & M. G., bride and groom

My daughter ‘s wedding in September was managed by Jutta and it went off without a glitch, Jutta  was qualified to make this a memorable event for our family and friends. I would highly recommend her as a competent wedding planner.
Thank you Jutta for memorable event.

Eugene W., father of the bride

Like many unfortunate couples, my wife and I had decided to try plan and execute our wedding all on our own. Big mistake. Fortunately for us, Jutta was able and willing to step in late in the planning process and help us pull together all the loose ends. Our wedding was a smashing success–thanks Jutta!

Greg H., groom

I was invited to perform at a March wedding where the couple’s plans had suddenly gone completely awry and they were dearly needing the help of a very skillful, quick thinking, seasoned wedding planner. Lucky for them that they found Jutta. She not only came to their rescue, but did it with signature class, elegance and effectiveness. I give her 5 stars and look forward to any future opportunities to work again with “A Day Like No Other.”

Suellen P., musician

We’re incredibly thankful we hired a wedding planner, and even more that it was Jutta. She is one elegant, friendly, unflappable, responsible, on-point woman.
The only thing I would say we should have done differently is hire her for more than just the one day.
What we noticed about her was that she was very organized, experienced, and calm, the trifecta of wedding planning. We were a hard group to wrangle and organize and keep on target; mostly everyone getting together was from out of the country (I’m Canadian, my wife French) and seeing old friends and family had everyone excited and nervous about the big day. Jutta really held us together with poise; we changed a lot of things at the last minute (processional order, where we would walk from, speeches with what dinner course, when and where we would toss the bouquet, etc.) and we were really impressed by how she went with it all, even despite the fact that we had gone over and over the order of events before hand, etc. It really was a much bigger event than we anticipated (from a details point of view), and she held it together. Professional, warm, amicable, and yet kept it on track. It was a real pleasure to work with Jutta, and we highly recommend her to anyone who wishes to have a low stress wedding.

Andrew C., groom

Jutta was great and made our dream wedding flow smooth. We got married 8-10-13 at the golden gate club in the Presidio, and Jutta did everything from walking the dog, grabbing girls bouquets who forgot them, kept us on schedule with all the ceremonial things that go on, set up the hall along with the catorers. She was a joy to have a wedding planner and always did what was needed with a smile. Thanks Jutta for helping out with our big day.

Fabian R., groom

Jutta coordinated a wedding that my band played at in Monterey. She was a pleasure to work with. First, before the wedding, we communicated over email, and she did a great job at making sure everyone was on the same page and that all the details were worked out. Then, over the course of the 6 or 7 hours we were at the wedding itself, I could see how well she kept everything running smoothly. I saw someone who was meticulous, dependable, professional, calm, and organized. In the end, the couple had a delightful wedding day, and I know Jutta definitely had a part in that!

Luke Abbott, band leader, Abbott Brothers

We are a florist in the bay area, and we have had the pleasure of working with Jutta on a number of occasions. She is always professional and is the person that you want to have at your wedding to make sure it runs smoothly. We see a lot of behind the scene situations, and we can testify that she absolutely goes the extra mile for her brides! Wonderful lady, and a joy to work with!

Diana Rasta, florist, Stems Floral Boutique

My Photography and Video crew had the pleasure of working with Jutta at Diahann and Brent’s wedding.  She was very organized and took care of everyone who was involved in the wedding.  Jutta was very calm and collected when there were last minutes changes.  I was impressed with her detail and organization to run the wedding smoothly.  Her professionalism and grace made the whole team feel calm in doing their job and working towards the same goal.  You could definitely rely on her to get the job done and do it well.  I would love to have the pleasure of working with her again.

Christine Ann Iglesias, videographer, Indulge Wedding Photography

Thank you so much, Jutta!!! We had an amazing time, thank you for your diligent efforts to make everything happen so smoothly! It was truly a magical experience.

Cassie M., bride

You were fantastic Jutta, we can’t thank you enough.

Jason H., groom
Jutta did a fantastic job on my daughters wedding. I couldn’t be more pleased. She was incredibly detail oriented, asked excellent questions, anticipated needs, suggested solutions and and formatted an excellent flow of events and kept everything moving. Most importantly, she accomplished all of this while remaining calm and focused. On the day of the wedding, she presented a calm demeanor while organizing and executing every detail. Attendees commented repeatedly that everyone had a wonderful time, the wedding was so much fun and it flowed so smoothly. This was certainly due in part to all of Jutta’s excellent planning and assistance. I highly recommend her services. And, her personality and willingness to help made her a joy to work with. She is a really nice person too!
Linda R., Mother of the Bride

My Portfolio

I am not only the author of Wedding Woof, I am also planning and designing elegant, personalized weddings at the most beautiful venues in the San Francisco Bay Area and all of Northern California. My business is “A Day Like No Other,” and that’s what I design for my couples – a dream Wedding Day! As a Professional Wedding Consultant,  trained and certified by the Association of Certified Professional Wedding Consultants, and as the Events Committee Chair for the SF Bay Area Chapter of the Wedding Industry Professionals Association, I bring experience, expertise and enthusiasm to my wedding projects – and I would love to do yours, too! Please contact me at

Inspired by Spring, sunny weather and blue skies, I just created an engagement video shoot to capture the magic of young love – with nature in bloom and a radiant couple. This could be your engagement! And for your bachelorette party, I came up with an elegant “Roaring Twenties” theme… enjoy! For the groom, I created an Andy Warhol-themed bachelor party, complete with an original vintage Mustang convertible, an Andy Warhol look-alike, and Sixties/Seventies hits on the karaoke machine in a hip bar… And what comes after engagement, bachelor and bachelorette parties? Wedding Day, of course! And here it is – what yours could be like: Pamela and John’s Wedding by A Day Like No Other! And here are two more: Alexa and Sean’s Wedding, Tara and Mike’s Wedding, and Valerie and Andrew, also by A Day Like No Other, of course… Now, I hope you are getting inspired!

Please look up my reviews and praise from my clients here.

Michelle & Philipp

A true fairytale wedding at a country estate, complete with a horse-drawn carriage and a French Chateau surrounded by formal gardens.

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Angie & Michael

An elegant wedding at a historic mansion on a sunny day in May, with friends and extended families from all over the world.

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Alexa & Sean

The two had a dream wedding with a “vintage glamour San Francisco” theme at the General’s Residence at Fort Mason overlooking the Bay.

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A happy union of feminine romance and urban chic in a hip downtown hotel, surrounded by iconic San Francisco architecture.

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Jane & Greg

Sophisticated elegance and Art Deco glamour at the Julia Morgan Ballroom in downtown San Francisco for an unforgettable wedding celebration.

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Katherine & David

“A Midsummernight’s Dream” was the theme for this truly romantic wedding in beautiful Carmel Valley.

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A four-day wedding weekend at a vineyard for closest family and friends, with a ceremony under a 100-year-old tree and alfresco dinner.

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A working ranch high up on a mountain overlooking San Francisco Bay was the romantic setting for this joyful, carnival-themed wedding.

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Unusual, quirky and sunny and unique – that’s how this couple had envisioned their wedding day. Have a look!

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The quaint town of Carmel-by-the Sea was the romantic setting for this lavish destination wedding.

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A sunset ceremony with a view of the San Francisco Bay, an Italian gourmet dinner and a joyful dance party to follow.

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A traditional wedding celebration with a full Catholic Mass, a lavish dinner and a Latin dance party to follow.

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An elegant affair at the famous Four Seasons of San Francisco – with Tea Ceremony, dinner and a ball.

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A wedding in a famous recording studio with canine companion Max in starched collar, bow tie and cuffs – and a seven piece band to mix it up.

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Coastal elegance at the Intercontinental The Clement in Monterey – impressionist views and high design.

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French-international flair in a romantic country club setting, a ceremony under a centuries-old oak tree on a picture-perfect day.

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Tuscany came to the Napa Wine Country at this wedding at a secluded private estate with an enchanted garden.

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With both bride and groom professional musicians and the bride an amateur astronomer, the theme of this wedding was: music and the stars!

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Smitten by the beauty of the Ocean, this couple tied the knot in the spectacular setting of a world-renowned aquarium.

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A multicultural wedding, honoring the bride’s Chinese and the Groom’s Korean heritage as well as their connection to San Francisco.

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Rustic elegance in the great outdoors with nostalgic décor and lavish lighting, dinner dancing under the stars.

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A quintessential Californian wedding on a patio above the Pacific, surrounded by family and many friends.

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Whimsy, nostalgia and charm are the key words for Lauren’s and Francisco’s relaxed wedding party with kids and family.

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A couple from Canada, celebrating their destination wedding in San Francisco with more than one hundred guests.

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An elegant wedding at a private estate amidst lush gardens, dining under towering trees and dancing under the stars.

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The charm of a century-old historic venue, handmade decor and a celebration for friends and family under romantic string lights.

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Virgina & Mick

A romantic outdoor ceremony at a historic San Francisco venue, followed by a dance party at the hip, urban-chic “The Box SF”.

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A magical day on the Beach for a feet-in-the-sand ceremony and a relaxed reception with traditional clam chowder.

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Nicole & Isaac

A family festivity in a Redwood grove honoring the bride’s German heritage, their Jewish upbringing, and their love of all things handmade.

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Peggy & Jose

A lighthearted, quirky, artsy celebration for friends and family with fun, good food and drink – and the couple’s dog Lucky in attendance!

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Wedding in Green

Inspirations for a wedding theme with green as the accent color. From the bride’s bouquet to emerald jewelry and a rustic dinner spread.

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A photo shoot showing high elegance in dramatic wedding dresses, exquisite jewelry and gorgeous floral décor at one of SF’s most famous venues.

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Urban cool and masculine chic with SF city lights as our backdrop was the theme of this stylized photo shoot at the elegant Four Seasons.

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Wedding Industry Professionals Association 2014 kick-off meeting on the 40th floor Sky Deck of the Mandarin-Oriental Hotel SF.

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An elegant luncheon for wedding Industry professionals at one of the Bay Area’s premier wedding venues: Villa Montalvo.

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An animated reopening party at a historic San Francisco wedding venue with food, wine, music and great company.

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Festive Luncheon

The Wedding Industry Professionals Association kicked off the year 2013 with a festive luncheon at the famous Westin St. Francis in San Francisco.

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Great Gatsby Party

In the style of the Roaring Twenties, a party full of elegant extravagance  – from flapper dresses to ostrich feathers and dripping crystals…

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Elegant Invitations

Custom calligraphed invitations in crystal-embellished silk folders set an elegant tone for a Tiffany-inspired dream wedding.

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Antique  Books

Antique books took center stage at a librarian’s wedding last summer. Here are the creative designs for the dinner table centerpieces.

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Design with French flair for a gala event of the French-American Chamber of Commerce SF – Paris throughout the seasons.

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Urban Chic

Dark glamour for a dance party in a former factory: mirrors, gems and candles complementing rocks, branches and black velvet roses.

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Peacock Feathers

An stunning escort card display of 220 peacock feathers for an elegant vintage San Francisco wedding theme.

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