Megan and Justin at River House

When this couple approached my company, A Day Like No Other, for help with planning their wedding, they had already done a lot of venue search and identified a number of constraints. No wedding in Fall, out in nature, preferably under towering Redwood trees, with sufficient shade against the California sun, a polished event venue, close-by accommodations for their numerous out-of-town guests, not too far away from Silicon valley… and if that wasn’t tricky enough, their respective parents had overlapping date conflicts. In short, this was not easy! Until… enter River House, a fairly new event venue in the Santa Cruz Mountains. It checked most of the couple’s requirements, AND it had suitable event dates still available. BOOKED!

With just under nine months to go (and demanding work schedules for both bride and groom), we had our work cut out for us. The wedding planner provided by the venue helped with local connections and vendors. After a whirlwind of sourcing, comparing and booking vendors, food and cake tastings, showroom visits and lounge furniture selection, organizing a Tea Ceremony preceding the Western festivities and an afterparty close to the wedding venue…. the Big Day had finally arrived!

Given the mid-morning Tea Ceremony to start the day, the bride and her bridesmaids and the mothers had to get up VERY early to have their hair and makeup done (DesignHerImage).

The traditional Tea Ceremony was held at the Hilton Scotts Valley hotel which served as the “home base” for the couple, their family members and many of their guests.

After that, the Western part of their wedding day started… with transit to River House, the local wedding planner taking over and bride and groom getting into Western wedding attire.

Beautiful romantic bouquets in pastel Spring colors (Laurel Canyon Farms) were waiting for the bride (and her bridesmaids…)

… who were themselves wearing assorted pastel Spring colors.

The groom and groomsmen were dressed up for the celebration as well:

Ready for their First Look – all captured by the One Love photo team and Curio videographers.

Always such an emotional moment…

This should be their official wedding photo, don’t you think?!

But there was still the ceremony to come! Guests were arriving via shuttle (Corinthian Ground Transportation)

Here comes the bride…

… for her romantic wedding ceremony in the outdoor pavilion, serenaded by Innocenti Strings.

Just married!

YESSSS!!

And while guests got to enjoy not only the usual cocktails and hors d’oeuvres (by Love Creek Catering), but also ice cream and a veritable British High Tea (!), lounging on vintage furniture pieces by White Rabbit Event Rentals, the newlyweds went off to take even more photos.

Isn’t that pretty?! Guests were then invited to dinner in the lavishly decorated Barn with tables, chairs and tabletop items from Alexis Party Rental...

… where they also had their choreographed First Dance to tunes by Santa Cruz DJ

… their ceremonial cake cutting…

… and a LOT of wild dancing with their guests!

And the Grand Send-off with sparklers …? That was just the send-off to an afterparty!

Keep partying, Megan and Justin! Wishing you continued happiness!

Andrea’s and Alex’s dream come true – a wedding at Kohl Mansion

Andrea and Alexander had found their absolute dream venue – the historic Kohl Mansion in Burlingame – and then they realized that a lot more had to be done to actually host their wedding there… so they turned to my company, A Day Like No Other, to help them fill in all the myriad details that, in the end, come together to a great wedding celebration.

We had eight months to make it happen – and this time went by very quickly. On a breezy, sunny Friday in April, the Big Day had finally come!

For bride Andrea and her bridesmaids, it began with hair and makeup services (Beauty by Cherie); then, with the help from her bridesmaids, she stepped into her elegant wedding dress… and look how radiant she is!

Time for photos (by Frank J. Lee Photography)!

What’s missing? Her bridal bouquet, of course! (All flowers by Narose).

Now she’s ready for her First Look…

… on the main staircase of the Mansion.

Every single time, this is such a special, intimate moment between bride and groom. Truly priceless.

And now, it’s couple’s portrait time! Having fun …

Peekaboo!

On to more official wedding photos…

… like this…

… or this…

… or that one!

Soon enough, guests were arriving (all 200 of them!!)…

… and the ceremony began in the elegant Green Room of Kohl Mansion, with a friend of the couple officiating.

The Kohl Mansion staff under the leadership of Events Director Denise Severi had done the complete setup – not only for the ceremony, but for cocktails and dinner as well, florist Narose had prepared impressive altar arrangements, and our DJ/MC Paul Burchfield of Big Fun Disc Jockeys provided beautiful music – while photographer Frank Lee and videographer Martin Meyer of martinFILMS captured it all.

Meanwhile, Lucia’s Bar Company had set up the bar in the Courtyard, ready to serve guests right after the ceremony, and Ginger Cafe Catering was ready to serve hors d’oeuvres.

The newlyweds had, of course, even more photos to take:

Time for dinner in the double-height Great Hall at Kohl Mansion!

The dinner table centerpieces by florist Narose were literally glowing in fresh Spring colors, and the Sweetheart Table got special treatment.

What’s happening after dinner? Cake Cutting! The cake and an impressive dessert buffet had been provided by Always Your Bakery Cafe – look, how pretty!

There was one more highlight of the celebration, of course: dancing – and for those who’d take a break, a photobooth.

One thing’s for sure: Andrea and Alexander GOT their dream wedding! Congratulations!

Shall We Dance?

Catherine’s and Jacob’s one-of-a-kind wedding at Kohl Mansion

A bagpipe band for the processional? Check.

A Scottish Highland dance performance to entertain the guests? Check.

Authentic Scottish-only flowers for all bouquets? Check.

All the gentlemen in kilts? Of course!

And so on, and so forth. This wedding was “one for the ages!” Bride Catherine, of Scottish-Danish heritage, and an accomplished professional Scottish Highland dance instructor, pulled all the stops for her authentic, traditional nuptials – and historic Kohl Mansion in Burlingame, with its double-height Great Room and dark wood paneling, was the perfect setting for her vision. And Jacob, her groom, was fully onboard with this vision from Day One!

So we (at A Day Like No Other) got started, with nine months to go. Selecting authentic Scottish Highland flowers took intense, deep research (by Laurel & Vine) – sourcing these flowers (or their closest substitutes) in California was yet another story… Bride Catherine took responsibility for all other things Scottish, especially the gentlemen’s traditional attire (kilts in the bride’s family tartan!), a bagpipe band (complete with kettledrums!), a Scottish Highland dance performance … AND a traditional Danish wedding cake (to honor the “other side” of her cultural heritage). Suffice it to say that planning this wedding was very intense and involved, and we just made it to the finish line!

Finally, the big day had arrived, and Catherine began the day with hair and makeup services by Tiffany Chiang of Design HER Image, then getting into her classic, very feminine wedding dress.

Here she is, at Kohl Mansion, in timeless beauty – and poise:

She could easily be royalty, don’t you think? Time for a very emotional First Look with her Dad…

… followed by a First Look with her groom, Jacob.

Had you told me that this was the wedding of a Scottish duchess at her castle – I would have believed it!

Next came a lot of photos of the happy couple, all by RK Honey Photography

Of course, there were also photos of the bridal party…

… and of the radiant bride with her flowers!

Soon enough, guests were about to arrive, and they were greeted in style by the Macintosh Pipe band:

… something definitely so far unheard-of at this venue! As the wedding fell in the colder season in California, Catherine and Jacob held their wedding ceremony indoors, again accompanied by bagpipe tunes.

“With this ring, I thee wed…”

The mandatory signing of the marriage license literally “sealed the deal…”

… and the newlyweds had more photos to take…

… while their guests enjoyed Cocktail Hour outdoors, protected by a tent (from Hensley Event Resources)…

… and entertained by more bagpipe music!

All the while, dinner preparations were underway behind the scenes – fast and furious! The team of Continental Caterers had the dining room set up (with beautiful rental items from Hensley Event Resources) and the kitchen going; florist Marie of Laurel & Vine set the long rows of dining tables with green garlands and a profusion of candlelight; DJ Paul of Big Fun Disc Jockeys was setting up sound and light both for speeches over dinner and then, of course, for dancing; and my production team of A Day Like No Other orchestrated it all.

It was a feast of epic proportions, hearkening back to times long past… and utterly romantic!

But the highlights of the celebration just kept coming – the next one being the authentic Danish wedding cake, a “kransekage” (from Copenhagen Bakery) – a delicious tower of marzipan-like layers, topped with a heart-shaped cookie for the newlyweds.

Having cut and shared this gorgeous cake, the newlyweds went on to what they love most: dancing.

Of course, their First Dance was a highly choreographed routine (by the bride – who else?!), and the same held true for the Father-Daughter Dance.

Guests were invited to join in the fun with a traditional ceilidh…

… and they left the dance floor ONLY to help themselves from the huge dessert buffet (also from Copenhagen Bakery)!

The rest of the night was spent just dancing, dancing, dancing – and celebrating!

So – one thing is for sure: this was unforgettable. Keep dancing, Catherine and Jacob, and celebrating your happiness for many, many years to come!

Texas wedding venues: Commodore Perry Estate

An incredible discovery today: a historic mansion, literally minutes away from downtown Austin in a quiet neighborhood – and once you pass through the wrought-iron gate onto the flagstone driveway, you find yourself in a different world.

The Mediterranean-inspired architecture of the mansion with its neoclassical influences, the surrounding manicured park with mature trees (many magnolias among them!) and the peace and serenity of the 10-acre estate transport you in a zen-like state of mind; I guarantee it.

An additional building of the same vintage – the 1920s – houses a gym and spa, and then there is a hotel building with 52 rooms which looks and feels exactly the same; hard to believe it’s just a few years old! Designer extraordinaire Ken Fulk managed the nearly impossible – both for the mansion which was gently renovated while preserving its historic charm, and for the new hotel building which was constructed using historic materials including encaustic tile and reclaimed wood floors and a classical architectural vocabulary like this interior courtyard surrounded by arcades. Nothing is “fake” – it all breathes authenticity and luxurious understatement.

And then – did I already say that it’s the most exclusive wedding venue in all of central Texas? With just over 30 wedding events per year – maximal 6 of them buy-outs – the venue makes sure that each couple and their guests receive the full attention and effort of the dedicated staff. In short, they are treated like royalty!

Indoors, the mansion exudes the quiet charm of its beginnings a century ago, with period furnishings and decor, but without the feel of a museum; rather like a well-aged private home, handed down through the generations and lovingly cared for.

The property, under the umbrella of the luxury hotel group Auberge, prides itself on extraordinarily good food: from the same kitchen and the same chefs who run the onsite Michelin-starred restaurant.

For all its elegance and sophistication, it’s a cozy, warm and welcoming space with a French-Mediterranean atmosphere – and it even has a patio with outdoor seating.

Back to weddings! There are several outdoor ceremony areas to choose from…

… all equally beautiful and with the option to use the back facade of the mansion as the gorgeous backdrop for your vows!

Just imagine the possibilities… with draping and flowers and and and…! And if you’d rather not chance the weather, you can have your ceremony in the former chapel which otherwise serves as a stylish space for dancing. In short… you can have it all, and all here, onsite – a complete, unforgettable wedding weekend with your guests. For me, Commodore Perry Estate was a true revelation. I’m charmed!

Contact: cpe.events@aubergeresorts.com

Sarah and Justin – cherished traditions for their wedding

A couple very mindful of their cultural and religious traditions – AND of family tradition! They got married in exactly the same spot where the bride’s parents had tied the knot, 35 years prior. Only difference: this time the weather was much better!

The “spot” was Thomas Fogarty Winery, an elegant event venue perched on a ridge high above Silicon Valley, with endless views to the San Francisco skyline, and surrounded by producing vineyards – the wines from these vineyards were, of course, served at the celebration!

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But I am getting ahead of myself…

After a year of planning with my company, A Day Like No Other, the big day had finally arrived.

After hair and makeup styling at her parents’ home, Sarah was driven to Fogarty Winery where she would dress up and present herself to her future husband officially for the first time – a “First Look.”

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The quintessential mother-daughter moment with the mother preparing her daughter for getting married.

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Florist Janelle Jacky-Litt of Green Petal Designs provided Sarah with her bridal bouquet…

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… in elegant white-on-white, textured and with a feminine softness – and there she is in all her finery!

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Groom Justin, meanwhile, was also getting ready for the big moment, supported by his brother and the other groomsmen.

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Immediately after their First Look on a balcony overlooking the vineyards and the valley, Sarah and Justin read their personal vows to each other – a very tender and unforgettable moment for both of them.

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While both were taking lots and lots of photos with photographer extraordinaire Gavin Farrington and his assistant Paula, all the other vendor teams were hard at work with preparations.

The ceremony area was set up with chairs, a chuppah and lavish floral decor (by Green Petal Designs),

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Immediately preceding the wedding ceremony, the couple signed their ketubah.

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My assistant Quan and I set up the elegant WELCOME sign that the artistically gifted bride had created herself, along with all other wedding stationery; and there were a myriad of other details to take care of…

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The team of Culinary Eye Catering set the tables in the open Pavilion, DJ .Zhaldee of Entourage Events was setting up sound systems, Rabbi Debbie Pine arrived for the ceremony, and violinist Joyce Lee got settled to accompany this ceremony with classical tunes.

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Guests arrived via shuttle buses (from Corinthian Ground Transportation), and soon we were ready for the long-anticipated, big moment. Here comes the bride!

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After a traditional (but light-hearted!) Jewish ceremony…

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… Sarah and Justin broke a glass, also per tradition …

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… and were declared “husband and wife.”

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Just married!! And soooo happy…

Next? More photos, of course – and cocktails and hors d’oeuvres (by Culinary Eye Catering) …

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… for the guests who were asked to write their well-wishes and messages for the newlyweds on vintage travel postcards, to be gathered into a keepsake album.

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“Travel” was a big theme at this wedding as this is the couple’s shared passion – they got engaged in Kenya, for starters! And that’s why tables were named after some of their favorite destinations, “Nairobi” rubbing shoulders with “San Francisco…” and “Cancun” with “Tahoe!”

Sarah and Justin used the time not only for many more portraits…

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… but also to rehearse their choreographed First Dance one more time.

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Dinner time! Guests found their assigned tables on a mirrored seating chart…

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Dinner was set up in the open Pavilion…

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The table settings were elegant…

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… and the food (by Culinary Eye Catering) incredible.

The couple opened dinner with their Grand Entrance and…

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… subsequent First Dance…

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… and after dinner, it was only dessert …

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… and more dancing!

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Of course, the newlyweds had their traditional Jewish Hora Dance during which they were hoisted high up above the dancing crowd in jubilation.

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As a nod to their beloved cat Lorraine who sadly could not participate in the celebration, all guests got a custom “Lorraine” t-shirt as a present!

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What a day, and what a night… Congratulations and a long, happy life together to Sarah and Justin!

Sally and Chris – a Persian/American fantasy

Two super-busy young professionals, living out of state, planning an elaborate wedding at Nestldown Estate just outside Silicon Valley – it’s clear they needed assistance! I was so honored that they chose my company, A Day Like No Other, to help with the planning and design, and the bride’s parents took over the tasks of site visits and tastings that had to be done in-person. After a year of planning and designing, everything finally came together beautifully under blue skies and a warming May sunshine.

For Sally and her friends, her sister, mother and mother-in-law, the day began at the elegant Hotel Los Gatos

… where they all received beauty services by Felicia Wei and assistants of Bun Bun Bridal Lab – and look how gorgeous the results were! Photographer Gavin Farrington with second shooter Paula captured the whole day from start to finish – however, for the time being, all we have to show are my cellphone shots. Just wait until you see the professional photos!

At Nestldown, meanwhile, several vendor teams (including myself and my associate Stephanie Hui) were hard at work to get everything ready for the celebration; Ephraim of Apis Florals and his crew put up gorgeous floral arrangements…

…. a gilded circular arch, decorated with a profusion of flowers, and a sofreh-aghd, the traditional Persian wedding spread (the bride is of Persian heritage), in the “Chapel,” a natural clearing in the Redwoods at Nestldown, where all ceremonies are held.

Guests were arriving via convenient shuttle service (by Corinthian Ground Transportation) and making their way to the lavishly decorated ceremony area.

Time for the ceremony!

Here comes the bride, with her parents, serenaded by the Corelli Strings trio. The unique Persian-American ceremony was officiated by Sally’s best friend from college, together with Sally’s sister, with participation from her uncle, nephews and nieces, and a friend of the couple. This was a very personal, heartfelt moment for all.

The sofreh was a labor of love by the bride’s parents – her father built the table himself, her mother supplied all the symbolic items that are displayed on the sofreh, and her sister contributed to the ceremony with explanations for all guests who might not be familiar with the Persian wedding customs.

As part of the wedding ceremony, female family members shower the couple with sugar, rubbed over their heads, symbolizing the sweetness of marriage.

Just married!!

While Chris and Sally had to take more romantic photos – and video by Two4Tea – on the beautiful grounds of Nestldown…

…their guests enjoyed cocktails (by Bacchus Wine and Spirits) and hors d’oeuvres by Wylder Space Catering at the “Apple Knoll” event space – under a pergola hung with crystal chandeliers!

Another personal touch: Chris’ and Sally’s beloved canine Neville was cheering guests from the cocktail napkins…

… and Corelli Strings again provided the elegant musical background.

A truly elegant affair! Come dinner time, guests were invited to Nestldown’s Main Lawn …

… where tables with elegant floral centerpieces…

… a seating chart arranged on a huge mirror….

…..and place settings with individual leather name tags awaited them.

After a delicious dinner (by Wylder Space Catering) and heartfelt speeches by their parents, everyone moved inside the “Barn”, the central event space at Nestldown, for cutting the wedding cake and enjoying Persian desserts (by C’est Si Bon Bakery)…

… and for a huge surprise for the couple: a saxophonist whom the bride’s sister had secretly hired to play alongside DJ Woody Miraglia (of Big Fun Disc Jockeys) – a dream come true for Sally and Chris! Saxophonist Justin Ward, a musician through and through, accompanied the newlyweds’ First Dance under the giant crystal chandelier…

… and from that moment on, it was only “dance, dance, dance” for the rest of the evening. A Grand Send-off with shimmering bubbles was the last high point of this incredible celebration, before the couple was whisked away in the authentic vintage London taxi which is one of the special perks at Nestldown.

Keep celebrating and dancing, Sally and Chris – wishing you a lifetime of happiness together!

NorCal special: my favorite wedding venues

The dream of Nestldown

30 yrs ago, a young couple starting their family purchased 180 acres of wilderness in the Santa Cruz Mountains and, through persistent hard work, they “moved a mountain” in the literal sense of the word; they transformed it into their vision of a garden oasis, for themselves, their children and ultimately, for wedding celebrations. They built a huge (elegant!) barn – already planned as a fully outfitted event space – where their children could play; a storybook cottage for their girls, a life-size train for their boys (father and son), a tree house… and over the years added innumerable extra touches to what is now the ultimate elegant wedding destination in the Redwoods. With a natural Redwood “chapel” for ceremonies, ponds, meadows, 36 acres of manicured gardens, mature trees with permanently installed twinkle lights casting a magical glow at dusk – Nestdown has become the perfect combination of elegance and natural beauty. It is still owned and managed by the same family, meanwhile supported by the children who had the good fortune growing up in this magical place.

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I have been honored to be included in the small handful of wedding planners allowed to work at this exceptional venue, and here are images from the many, many weddings I have been privileged to plan, design and produce there. Let me show you around…

The “Chapel,” a natural clearing in the redwoods, paved with flagstones for the most romantic ceremony spot imaginable.

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These are the wedding photos you want to see again and again, down the road, in twenty years…

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Of course, you need a photo with the Fairytale Cottage…

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… and with the train… and the tree house… while your guests are enjoying cocktails!

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Dinner on the Main Lawn is magical, as dusk is falling…

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… and after that, it’s dancing, dancing, dancing under the enormous crystal chandelier in the Barn.

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And at Nestldown, the Grand Send-Off of the newlyweds is definitely one of the highlights of the event!

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Through a “tunnel” of cheering guests, the couple departs to a waiting authentic London taxi!

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Bon voyage and a lifetime of happiness – which started on this magical day at Nestldown.

“To film or not to film, that is the question…”

Expert interview with videographer Will Cook of Kindlewood Films

Will and I go back many years – and we’ve collaborated on quite a few weddings. For many couples, videography is an afterthought, and for some even an “unnecessary expense.” WRONG, says Will… let’s see why that is so!

How did you get into videography/wedding videography?
I started out in commercial and documentary filmmaking, but found myself drawn to the emotion and storytelling of weddings. A friend asked me to film their big day years ago, and I was hooked. There’s something really special about capturing such an important, personal moment and turning it into a cinematic keepsake.

How many weddings have you done?
Over the years, I’ve filmed more than 150 weddings across California and beyond. Each one is a little different, which keeps it fresh and creatively fulfilling.

Which qualities, in your opinion, are crucial for a great wedding videographer?
A great wedding videographer needs to be calm under pressure, always aware of what’s happening, and able to anticipate the moments before they happen. But just as important is having a filmmaker’s eye—using light, sound, and movement to tell the story in a beautiful, meaningful way.

What is the difference between cellphone video by wedding guests and a professional wedding video?
Cell phone videos are great for capturing quick moments, but a professional wedding video is intentional. It’s shot with multiple cameras, crisp audio, cinematic framing, and professional editing. The difference is like comparing a home video to a short film.

What does wedding video add BEYOND wedding photos?
Photos freeze moments in time, but video brings them to life. You can hear your vows, see your loved ones move and speak, relive the speeches, the laughter, the energy on the dance floor. It captures the emotional heartbeat of the day in a way nothing else can.

What are the criteria by which couples should choose their wedding videographer?
Connection and trust are key. Look for someone whose work resonates with you emotionally, who communicates clearly, and who you feel comfortable having around on your wedding day. Style, professionalism, and personality all matter.

What makes wedding videography so expensive?
A lot goes into it—multiple cameras, high-end audio gear, lighting, travel, and most importantly, the time. A single wedding can take 60+ hours to edit. You’re not just paying for a service, you’re investing in a piece of storytelling that you’ll watch for decades.

Anything else you’d like to add?
I always tell couples: your wedding day will go by fast, and there’s no way to remember everything. Video lets you relive it. Years from now, when voices have changed or loved ones are gone, having that story captured is priceless.

Want to see living proof of how powerful a wedding video can be? Here is one that Will did at one of my weddings!

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Expert interview: Violinist Laura Jeannin on live music for your wedding

Laura and her Mersonacta Quartet have played many times at my weddings and imparte them with an upscale, polished feel that pre-recorded music just can’t create. She of all people knows everything about WHY you should have live music at your wedding, at the very least at your ceremony. 

“How did you get into music? And then into WEDDING music? What is it that fascinates you about it?”
My parents are musicians so I come by it honestly! As for wedding music, it’s a fun way to make people really happy. It’s such a special day for a couple and it’s really fun to contribute to that joy and lasting memory. 


“What is your specific style and why?”
I love playing all the pop songs but I’m actually trained as a baroque musician. I have a Master’s degree in baroque performance and that’s my favorite music to play (Bach, Handel, Corelli, etc).


“How have you evolved as a musician?”
I’m constantly evolving – learning new stuff, learning how much I can improve. Playing with other people is such a fun way to improve as a player.


“How do you connect with couples?”
I’m extroverted so it’s super easy for me to connect with couples. Being around other people is what gives me life. I love to hear their stories of how they met, and hearing their vows is always really fun. I’m often crying hearing these sweet stories!


“What, in your opinion, is the difference btw just recorded music (playlist, DJ) and live music at a wedding?”
Why do I go to concerts? To watch! Live music is such a visual element and while watching a DJ dance around can be cute, it’s so fascinating for me to watch musicians play.


“Why is live music expensive?”
We’ve put in our 10,000 hours. I have two degrees in music, and I’ve been playing my instrument and perfecting my craft for over 30 years. We spend time in the practice room learning the notes before your Big Day – so it’s not just the time on site that you’re paying for.

Thanks so much!

Laura Jeannin

Baroque & Modern Violin

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Want to watch and listen? Here you go! Corelli and another Baroque duo!

Wowpretty!!

Expert interview with hair and makeup artist Jira

Jira and I go back many years. I hardly know anyone as hardworking as her. We have collaborated on countless weddings… not only because she is extremely experienced, professional and so good at what she does – she can also bring a whole army of qualified assistants to any wedding, so styling a dozen bridesmaids in time is absolutely no problem for her.


“How long have you been in business, and what brought you to hair/makeup styling?

My passion for beauty began in childhood, as I loved making my friends and family look beautiful. By now, with Jira Salon and Wowpretty Makeup and Hair Agency, I look back on over 25 years of experience and more than 5,000 successful clients.

What is your specific style – natural, elegant, glamorous…? What is your ideal bride/bridesmaid/mother?

My team and I specialize in various styles, including natural, elegant, and glamorous looks. We understand that everyone has unique facial features, personalities, and personal styles. As experts in beauty, we take the time to understand each client’s vision, ensuring they achieve the look they love the most. 

Are you specializing in a particular technique? If so, why – what is unique about it?

Yes, I specialize in creating customized bridal looks that enhance each bride’s natural beauty while complementing their unique facial features, personality, and wedding style.

Jira at work at one of my brides

What is the difference between DIY hair/makeup and professional makeup?

Professional makeup artists and hairstylists have extensive training and experience in working with different skin types, facial features, and hair textures. They understand how to create looks that enhance natural beauty, complement individual styles, and last all day—especially crucial for weddings and special events.

Professionals use high-quality, long-wearing products and advanced techniques, such as airbrush makeup for a flawless, lightweight finish and precision hairstyling for lasting volume and elegance. They also know how to ensure that makeup looks stunning both in person and in high-definition photography, which is often a challenge with DIY applications.

While DIY makeup can be fun for everyday looks, professional artistry ensures a polished, camera-ready, and long-lasting result that brings out the best version of you on your special day.

 

What is the difference between great and not-so-great hair and makeup?

“The difference between great and not-so-great hair and makeup comes down to technique, product quality, and how well the look is tailored to the individual.

Great hair and makeup enhance natural beauty, complement facial features, and suit the occasion, personality, and style of the person wearing it. The application is seamless, blending effortlessly into the skin, with makeup that looks flawless both in person and in photos. High-quality products ensure long-lasting wear, and hairstyling maintains its shape and elegance throughout the event.

On the other hand, not-so-great hair and makeup can appear cakey, uneven, or unblended, failing to enhance the individual’s features. Poor-quality products may cause the makeup to fade, smudge, or oxidize, while improper hairstyling techniques can lead to flat or overly stiff hair that doesn’t hold up. Additionally, if the look doesn’t match the person’s style, skin tone, or event setting, it may feel unnatural or uncomfortable.

A skilled professional ensures that hair and makeup are expertly applied, flattering, and long-lasting, giving confidence and elegance to every client.

Again – Jira at work at one of my brides

When choosing a stylist, which questions should a bride ask? What are “red flags” to avoid?

  1. Questions to ask:
  1. What is your experience with bridal hair and makeup? – Ensures the stylist has expertise in wedding beauty.
  2. Can I see your portfolio or client reviews? – Helps assess their style, quality of work, and consistency.
  3. Do you offer a trial session? – A trial is crucial to test the look before the wedding day.
  4. What products do you use? – High-quality, long-lasting products are essential for durability and a flawless finish.
  5. Do you offer airbrush makeup? – Airbrush can provide a lightweight, long-lasting, and HD-ready look.
  6. How do you customize the look for different skin tones, textures, and hair types? – Ensures the stylist can work with diverse features.
  7. What is your pricing and what does it include? – Helps clarify costs, potential add-ons, and travel fees.
  8. How do you handle last-minute changes or emergencies? – Professional stylists should have a backup plan.
  9. How long will the styling process take on the wedding day? – Timing is key to avoid delays.
  10. Do you stay for touch-ups or offer additional services for the bridal party? – Some stylists provide extended services for a flawless look throughout the event.

2. Red Flags to Avoid:

🚩 Lack of a portfolio or inconsistent work – A professional should have clear examples of past bridal work.
🚩 No trial session or refusal to do one – A trial is essential for ensuring satisfaction with the final look.
🚩 Poor hygiene or expired products – Clean tools and fresh products are critical for skin and hair health.
🚩 Limited knowledge of different skin tones and hair textures – A stylist should be experienced in working with diverse clients.
🚩 Unclear pricing or hidden fees – A professional should provide a detailed breakdown of costs.
🚩 Negative reviews or complaints about professionalism – Check for patterns in feedback regarding punctuality, communication, or reliability.
🚩 Unwillingness to listen or customize the look – A great stylist should tailor the look to the bride’s preferences.
🚩 Lack of a contract – A contract protects both parties and ensures clarity on services provided.
🚩 Overbooking on the wedding day – If a stylist juggles too many clients, they may be rushed or unavailable for touch-ups.
🚩 Unreliable communication – Slow responses or lack of professionalism in communication can be a red flag for potential issues.

🚩 Not on time, forgot equipment – Being late or forgetting equipment is not acceptable. It’s very important to make sure you bring everything on the day, even products and colors you may not use but know you might need. In 80% of the cases, the bride may change her mind at the last minute and want a different look, so as a good stylist, we need to be prepared for those changes – just in case.”

A professional stylist should be experienced, communicative, and committed to making the bride feel confident and beautiful on her big day.

How much time do you reserve for each service? And do you recommend touch-ups during the wedding day?

I typically reserve around 2 hours for the bride and 1 to 1.5 hours for each additional woman, for a comfortable experience and a flawless finish

Yes, we do recommend touch-ups during the wedding day, especially for the bride, as it ensures she looks fresh and flawless throughout the event. However, we understand that weddings can be costly, and touch-up services can add to the expense.

To help with this, we always suggest that brides consider doing their own touch-ups themselves if they prefer to keep costs down. During the trial or pre-wedding consultation, we take the time to show and teach each bride how to touch up their makeup and hair so they feel confident doing it themselves. This way, they can maintain their look without the added cost while still looking great throughout the day.”

Why is professional hair/makeup so expensive?

“Professional hair and makeup services may seem expensive, but there are several factors that contribute to the cost.

  1. Experience and Expertise: Skilled professionals bring years of training, practice, and specialized knowledge to ensure that your hair and makeup not only look flawless but also last throughout the entire day. They know the best techniques, products, and tools to create a look that enhances your natural beauty and is suited to your unique features.
  2. Quality Products and Tools: Professionals use high-quality, long-lasting products that are designed for special occasions, ensuring a flawless finish that stays in place through photos, emotions, and all-day wear. This also includes premium tools, such as brushes, tools for airbrushing, and high-end styling tools, which all come with additional costs.
  3. Personalized Service: Each service is tailored specifically to the client, whether it’s creating a unique bridal look, understanding different skin tones, hair textures, or catering to specific requests. This level of customization requires additional time and expertise.
  4. Time Commitment: On the wedding day, a stylist will spend several hours preparing the bride, bridal party, and others. Beyond the actual styling, there’s time for consultation, trial sessions, and any last-minute adjustments, as well as preparation time for the artist to ensure they’re equipped for the event.
  5. Travel and On-Site Services: Many professionals offer on-site services, meaning they travel to your location on the wedding day, which adds travel time, transportation costs, and sometimes overnight accommodations for destination weddings.
  6. Specialized Skillset: Bridal hair and makeup artists have expertise in creating looks that photograph beautifully, last all day, and stand up to the emotional rollercoaster of a wedding. They also have the ability to quickly adjust to changing conditions, whether it’s the weather or specific requests from the bride or bridal party.

Ultimately, the cost reflects the value of the professional’s time, skill, quality, and the overall experience they provide to make the bride feel confident and beautiful on her special day.”

Anything else you’d like to add

Yes!  HOW WE ARE DIFFERENT!

Expertise and Experience: Our team of licensed cosmetologists boasts a minimum of 10 years of experience in the industry, with unique talents and skills.

Cutting-Edge Techniques: Our makeup artists are at the forefront of the industry, utilizing the newest airbrushing techniques to achieve flawless, long-lasting results and any look desired.

Personalized Service: With our large staff, we offer tiered pricing for different levels of expertise, and we include airbrushing and lashes at no additional cost.

Convenience and Flexibility: Visit us at our salon in Burlingame, CA, or let us come to you, anywhere in the world. In the rare event of an emergency, rest assured that we always have additional stylists on call to save the day.

Trial Sessions and Guarantee: If for any reason you’re not satisfied with your trial, you can choose another stylist at no additional cost.

Attention to Detail: Our consultations include trial makeup and hair sessions, allowing for feedback and adjustments to ensure there are no surprises on your wedding day.

Professional Connections: With our extensive network of professional vendors in the Bay Area, we can coordinate with your wedding planner and other vendors to ensure that every aspect of your wedding is flawless and perfect.

At Wowpretty, we promise seamless coordination with you and your planner; we develop a well-planned timeline, and we have high attention to detail, a personalized approach, and unwavering commitment to excellence.

Your wedding day is a celebration of love, joy, and new beginnings.

Let Wowpretty Team be a part of your special day, and together, we’ll create memories that will last a lifetime.