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Expert interview with hair and makeup artist Jira

Jira and I go back many years. I hardly know anyone as hardworking as her. We have collaborated on countless weddings… not only because she is extremely experienced, professional and so good at what she does – she can also bring a whole army of qualified assistants to any wedding, so styling a dozen bridesmaids in time is absolutely no problem for her.


“How long have you been in business, and what brought you to hair/makeup styling?

My passion for beauty began in childhood, as I loved making my friends and family look beautiful. By now, with Jira Salon and Wowpretty Makeup and Hair Agency, I look back on over 25 years of experience and more than 5,000 successful clients.

What is your specific style – natural, elegant, glamorous…? What is your ideal bride/bridesmaid/mother?

My team and I specialize in various styles, including natural, elegant, and glamorous looks. We understand that everyone has unique facial features, personalities, and personal styles. As experts in beauty, we take the time to understand each client’s vision, ensuring they achieve the look they love the most. 

Are you specializing in a particular technique? If so, why – what is unique about it?

Yes, I specialize in creating customized bridal looks that enhance each bride’s natural beauty while complementing their unique facial features, personality, and wedding style.

Jira at work at one of my brides

What is the difference between DIY hair/makeup and professional makeup?

Professional makeup artists and hairstylists have extensive training and experience in working with different skin types, facial features, and hair textures. They understand how to create looks that enhance natural beauty, complement individual styles, and last all day—especially crucial for weddings and special events.

Professionals use high-quality, long-wearing products and advanced techniques, such as airbrush makeup for a flawless, lightweight finish and precision hairstyling for lasting volume and elegance. They also know how to ensure that makeup looks stunning both in person and in high-definition photography, which is often a challenge with DIY applications.

While DIY makeup can be fun for everyday looks, professional artistry ensures a polished, camera-ready, and long-lasting result that brings out the best version of you on your special day.

 

What is the difference between great and not-so-great hair and makeup?

“The difference between great and not-so-great hair and makeup comes down to technique, product quality, and how well the look is tailored to the individual.

Great hair and makeup enhance natural beauty, complement facial features, and suit the occasion, personality, and style of the person wearing it. The application is seamless, blending effortlessly into the skin, with makeup that looks flawless both in person and in photos. High-quality products ensure long-lasting wear, and hairstyling maintains its shape and elegance throughout the event.

On the other hand, not-so-great hair and makeup can appear cakey, uneven, or unblended, failing to enhance the individual’s features. Poor-quality products may cause the makeup to fade, smudge, or oxidize, while improper hairstyling techniques can lead to flat or overly stiff hair that doesn’t hold up. Additionally, if the look doesn’t match the person’s style, skin tone, or event setting, it may feel unnatural or uncomfortable.

A skilled professional ensures that hair and makeup are expertly applied, flattering, and long-lasting, giving confidence and elegance to every client.

Again – Jira at work at one of my brides

When choosing a stylist, which questions should a bride ask? What are “red flags” to avoid?

  1. Questions to ask:
  1. What is your experience with bridal hair and makeup? – Ensures the stylist has expertise in wedding beauty.
  2. Can I see your portfolio or client reviews? – Helps assess their style, quality of work, and consistency.
  3. Do you offer a trial session? – A trial is crucial to test the look before the wedding day.
  4. What products do you use? – High-quality, long-lasting products are essential for durability and a flawless finish.
  5. Do you offer airbrush makeup? – Airbrush can provide a lightweight, long-lasting, and HD-ready look.
  6. How do you customize the look for different skin tones, textures, and hair types? – Ensures the stylist can work with diverse features.
  7. What is your pricing and what does it include? – Helps clarify costs, potential add-ons, and travel fees.
  8. How do you handle last-minute changes or emergencies? – Professional stylists should have a backup plan.
  9. How long will the styling process take on the wedding day? – Timing is key to avoid delays.
  10. Do you stay for touch-ups or offer additional services for the bridal party? – Some stylists provide extended services for a flawless look throughout the event.

2. Red Flags to Avoid:

🚩 Lack of a portfolio or inconsistent work – A professional should have clear examples of past bridal work.
🚩 No trial session or refusal to do one – A trial is essential for ensuring satisfaction with the final look.
🚩 Poor hygiene or expired products – Clean tools and fresh products are critical for skin and hair health.
🚩 Limited knowledge of different skin tones and hair textures – A stylist should be experienced in working with diverse clients.
🚩 Unclear pricing or hidden fees – A professional should provide a detailed breakdown of costs.
🚩 Negative reviews or complaints about professionalism – Check for patterns in feedback regarding punctuality, communication, or reliability.
🚩 Unwillingness to listen or customize the look – A great stylist should tailor the look to the bride’s preferences.
🚩 Lack of a contract – A contract protects both parties and ensures clarity on services provided.
🚩 Overbooking on the wedding day – If a stylist juggles too many clients, they may be rushed or unavailable for touch-ups.
🚩 Unreliable communication – Slow responses or lack of professionalism in communication can be a red flag for potential issues.

🚩 Not on time, forgot equipment – Being late or forgetting equipment is not acceptable. It’s very important to make sure you bring everything on the day, even products and colors you may not use but know you might need. In 80% of the cases, the bride may change her mind at the last minute and want a different look, so as a good stylist, we need to be prepared for those changes – just in case.”

A professional stylist should be experienced, communicative, and committed to making the bride feel confident and beautiful on her big day.

How much time do you reserve for each service? And do you recommend touch-ups during the wedding day?

I typically reserve around 2 hours for the bride and 1 to 1.5 hours for each additional woman, for a comfortable experience and a flawless finish

Yes, we do recommend touch-ups during the wedding day, especially for the bride, as it ensures she looks fresh and flawless throughout the event. However, we understand that weddings can be costly, and touch-up services can add to the expense.

To help with this, we always suggest that brides consider doing their own touch-ups themselves if they prefer to keep costs down. During the trial or pre-wedding consultation, we take the time to show and teach each bride how to touch up their makeup and hair so they feel confident doing it themselves. This way, they can maintain their look without the added cost while still looking great throughout the day.”

Why is professional hair/makeup so expensive?

“Professional hair and makeup services may seem expensive, but there are several factors that contribute to the cost.

  1. Experience and Expertise: Skilled professionals bring years of training, practice, and specialized knowledge to ensure that your hair and makeup not only look flawless but also last throughout the entire day. They know the best techniques, products, and tools to create a look that enhances your natural beauty and is suited to your unique features.
  2. Quality Products and Tools: Professionals use high-quality, long-lasting products that are designed for special occasions, ensuring a flawless finish that stays in place through photos, emotions, and all-day wear. This also includes premium tools, such as brushes, tools for airbrushing, and high-end styling tools, which all come with additional costs.
  3. Personalized Service: Each service is tailored specifically to the client, whether it’s creating a unique bridal look, understanding different skin tones, hair textures, or catering to specific requests. This level of customization requires additional time and expertise.
  4. Time Commitment: On the wedding day, a stylist will spend several hours preparing the bride, bridal party, and others. Beyond the actual styling, there’s time for consultation, trial sessions, and any last-minute adjustments, as well as preparation time for the artist to ensure they’re equipped for the event.
  5. Travel and On-Site Services: Many professionals offer on-site services, meaning they travel to your location on the wedding day, which adds travel time, transportation costs, and sometimes overnight accommodations for destination weddings.
  6. Specialized Skillset: Bridal hair and makeup artists have expertise in creating looks that photograph beautifully, last all day, and stand up to the emotional rollercoaster of a wedding. They also have the ability to quickly adjust to changing conditions, whether it’s the weather or specific requests from the bride or bridal party.

Ultimately, the cost reflects the value of the professional’s time, skill, quality, and the overall experience they provide to make the bride feel confident and beautiful on her special day.”

Anything else you’d like to add

Yes!  HOW WE ARE DIFFERENT!

Expertise and Experience: Our team of licensed cosmetologists boasts a minimum of 10 years of experience in the industry, with unique talents and skills.

Cutting-Edge Techniques: Our makeup artists are at the forefront of the industry, utilizing the newest airbrushing techniques to achieve flawless, long-lasting results and any look desired.

Personalized Service: With our large staff, we offer tiered pricing for different levels of expertise, and we include airbrushing and lashes at no additional cost.

Convenience and Flexibility: Visit us at our salon in Burlingame, CA, or let us come to you, anywhere in the world. In the rare event of an emergency, rest assured that we always have additional stylists on call to save the day.

Trial Sessions and Guarantee: If for any reason you’re not satisfied with your trial, you can choose another stylist at no additional cost.

Attention to Detail: Our consultations include trial makeup and hair sessions, allowing for feedback and adjustments to ensure there are no surprises on your wedding day.

Professional Connections: With our extensive network of professional vendors in the Bay Area, we can coordinate with your wedding planner and other vendors to ensure that every aspect of your wedding is flawless and perfect.

At Wowpretty, we promise seamless coordination with you and your planner; we develop a well-planned timeline, and we have high attention to detail, a personalized approach, and unwavering commitment to excellence.

Your wedding day is a celebration of love, joy, and new beginnings.

Let Wowpretty Team be a part of your special day, and together, we’ll create memories that will last a lifetime.

Expert interviews: Cherise Gowan of Beauty by Cherise

All you need to know about great (wedding) hair and makeup!

Cherise and I go back to the first years we both had our businesses, and even back then it was obvious how talented and experienced Cherise is – and also, how much enthusiasm she brings to her craft. If anyone is knowledgeable about all things (wedding) hair and makeup, it’s someone like her!


How long have you been in business, and what brought you to hair/makeup styling?
I have been a hair and makeup artist for 20+ years. I am also a “behind-the-chair” hairstylist specializing in color, cuts and extensions. I was very young when I started doing hair and makeup on myself and my friends, and I was blessed to know that this was my calling at a young age. I was born with a disfiguring facial birth defect that was finally surgically corrected when I was 14 years old. The experience of being ridiculed for my appearance in school cemented my goal to make others look at feel beautiful from the inside out. I attended cosmetology school at age 17, received my license and started my business at 18 1/2 years old.

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“What is your specific style – natural, elegant, glamorous…? What is your ideal bride/bridesmaid/mother?

My most requested style is “natural glam.” I strongly believe in accentuating my clients’ natural beauty, all while making them look amazing for their photos.
My ideal brides are the ones who are kind and who are excited to collaborate with me!

BRD


“Are you specializing in a particular technique? If so, why – what is unique about it?
My specialty and what sets me apart from other artists is actually not a particular technique, but my hunger to learn and serve. After all these years I’m still constantly taking classes and learning!


“What is the difference between DIY hair/makeup and professional makeup?

Professional hair and makeup will be the least expensive part of your wedding day. I believe that if you’re paying so much money for professional photography/videography, you want to look your best! Having done literally thousands of weddings as a longtime hair and makeup artist, I know exactly what to do to make your wedding photos those of your dreams, with the appropriate hair and makeup. I also invest a significant amount of time and money into the best products for my clients.


What is the difference between great and not-so-great hair and makeup?
I believe there is an artist for everyone, and everyone has his/her own unique style.


When choosing a stylist, which questions should a bride ask? What are “red flags” to avoid?
I always suggest doing your research online; also, word of mouth is one of the best tools. Look to your friends’ or family members’ recommendations. Also be sure to ask how much experience the artist has in doing weddings. I always develop (AND strictly follow!) a day-of timeline, hire experienced assistants and, most of all, myself and my team NEVER run late! The last thing you want is to have a hair and makeup artist holding up the flow of the day.

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“How much time do you reserve for each service? And do you recommend touch-ups during the wedding day?
Every artist has his/her own timing. I am VERY experienced, and I use assistants who have been working with me for years, so I can say with confidence that we are like a well-oiled machine. Generally, for the bride I take an hour and a half total for hair and makeup. Bridesmaids take 30 minutes or so for hair and 25-30 minutes for makeup. I have in the past had brides/wedding coordinators really question my timing, but then they are always blown away on the day of the wedding when I finish on time, and usually early!
I do offer touch-ups at an hourly rate. Of course, you hope they aren’t necessary, and that all you really need for touch-ups is some powder and (for sure) lipstick!

BRD


“Why is professional hair/makeup so expensive?

As I mentioned before – hair and makeup will be the least expensive endeavor of your big day.
On that note, I take extensive time beforehand to communicate with the bride; I spend time setting up a contract and formulating a timeline. I also have to coordinate my assistants for the wedding day. In addition to those details, I take much pride in my hair and makeup kits, which means a significant time investment for ordering, restocking and purchasing the best products I can get!
But the most important factor of all is that you are paying for my expertise, experience AND my calm, friendly and understanding demeanor on a day that can be very stressful. I make sure to not be the cause of any sort of stress on your wedding day!


“Anything else you’d like to add?
I am so happy to meet so many amazing people in my career. And I look forward to many more years!

A little extra about me. I have been married to Patrick for 12 years; I have two daughters – Ireland James (11) and Golden Summer (4). When I’m not at work or having fun with my girls, I am OBSESSED with working out; I have lost 50 pounds over the last four years. What else? Having worked at Starbucks during high school and cosmetology school, I am still a fan of their Iced Americanos, and my favorite food is taco salad. I love to travel; my most-visited travel spots are Newport Beach, San Diego and Ko’olina/Hawaii. I am also a Disney Lover and frequent Disneyland visitor. Country music is another love of mine!
I am very passionate about my clients and my business. I have been doing hair and makeup more than half my life and I am so blessed to have a career where I get to make others feel good about themselves!

Timeless style icons: Grace Kelly

Who doesn’t know the “Kelly bag” by Hermes? Probably every elegant woman in the world wants one. The waitlist is years long. Resales boom.

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But have you ever asked yourself for whom the bag was named?

The bag, named Petit Sac à Courroies, was first designed by Hermes in 1935 – and, believe it or not, it was not a success. But…. that changed dramatically when American actress Grace Kelly …

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… had to carry one onscreen in one of her Hitchcock thrillers and came to love it so much that she kept carrying one privately. This was the public breakthrough…

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Already a star, with an Academy Award and three Golden Globes to her credit, she was copied by a whole generation of fashionable women – and when she married Prince Rainier III of Monaco, “Princess Gracia Patricia” became a forever fashion icon.

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No matter that she’d be nearly 100 years old by now – her effortless elegance is as stunning today and still serves as inspiration to designers and fashionistas alike (think: Red Carpet….)

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Photo credit: Pinterest
Photo credit: Pinterest

And in terms of bridal couture: her dress was clearly an inspiration to Kate Middleton’s…

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Expert interviews: florist Marie Krick of Laurel & Vine

Marie and I have collaborated on numerous wedding projects for more than a decade, some modest in size, and some requiring a whole army of florists for installation. No matter the scope, Marie is always prepared, having everything planned out meticulously ahead of time. But aside from that, she is also flexible and able to change plans in the moment – a vital skill in the events business!

What is your specific strength as a florist?

 I am good at thinking on my feet. There are so many unforeseen circumstances that come up on wedding days, and I have always been able to accommodate my couples’ “wedding day emergencies” with some quick “flower thinking.”

Photo credit: Sandra Fazzino
Photo credit: Sandra Fazzino
Photo credit: Sandra Fazzino

– What is your style? Your approach to your work?

My signature style is “garden with a touch of wild whimsy.” My approach is to stay very organized on the back end. I plan exactly how many stems of each variety will be going into each design months before the wedding. This allows for efficient, elegant, and confident designing.

– What does it take to deliver stunning wedding flowers?

Understanding each variety and its unique needs is key. Some roses need just one day outside of the cooler to open to perfection. Others need four. Some varieties shouldn’t be in the cooler at all. Knowing how to time the care and handling of each flower makes for stunning wedding flowers.

Photo credit: Kreate Photography

What is the difference between low-quality and high-quality floral decor?

Low quality florals aren’t given “love.” They aren’t trimmed, misted with water, or kept at the correct temperature and therefore may not hold up on a wedding day. They’re also poorly designed by someone who was most likely rushing or simply didn’t have the knowledge of basic design principles that would enable them to impart the “wow factor.”

Photo credit: Danny Dong
Photo credit: Danny Dong

Why are wedding flowers so expensive?

Flowers in general are considered a luxury. But most couples want more than just “everyday” flowers. They want special varieties such as garden roses, Icelandic poppies, and butterfly ranunculus. These more “special” varieties usually cost more than flowers you would find in a typical grocery store. 

Most couples are also looking for well-designed flowers. This means that they’re hiring a florist for his/her time and expertise beyond just the physical blooms. And if the wedding day includes numerous large flower installations, the florist needs to bring a team to help him/her set it up. That labor gets expensive, especially if your florist (hopefully) is paying a fair wage to his/her employees.

Photo credit: Danny Dong
Photo credit: Danny Dong
Photo credit: Danny Dong

What else would you like to add?

If couples are wanting to get the most “bang” for their buck, I recommend focusing on putting larger and more impressive floral designs where guests will be looking and spending time the most. Think: altar design, bar flowers, sweetheart table, etc. Put the bulk of your budget in these places, and then you can cut back in other areas if needed.

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Expert interviews: Nouvelle Vogue bridal salon

I have collaborated with Saida and Chantal, the charismatic owners of Nouvelle Vogue Bridal Salon, on many wedding projects and styled photoshoots. These two were the first ones to bring French/European bridal couture to the US two decades ago, and their style, taste and commitment to their brides is simply unmatched. Here are their expert insights in how to choose your wedding dress.

Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Danny Dong – A Savin of London Dress
Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Vicens Forns

Expert interviews: Photographer Kevin Chin

Another insight into the ground rules for wedding photography from acclaimed San Francisco photographer Kevin Chin with whom I have worked on many weddings – and his photos are always fantastic! Elegant, capturing the atmosphere and the moment AND all the pretty details – a balanced approach to capturing a wedding, and always stunning!

How did you get into photography? And, in particular, into WEDDING photography? What is it that fascinates you about it?

Like many people, photography started as a hobby for me.  I was always the one taking photos on family vacations and gatherings.  I started taking photos of my friends for fun.  From there, people started to ask me to shoot their family portraits and weddings.  The rest is history.  Weddings are the most important day in a person’s life, and I feel privileged and honored to capture their special day.  Experiencing the joy and emotions of a wedding day is something that I never get tired of.

“What is your specific style and why?”

I would say I incorporate a mixture of many different styles when shooting a wedding.  You need to well-versed in many photography styles to capture all the different elements of a wedding.  I am very good at posing my couples to flatter their body characteristics and their style to make them look their best.  I’m also good at observing and capturing real candid moments throughout the day.  And, of course, I use my creative eye to capture all the pretty details of the wedding day that the couple has chosen, which include the wedding dress, flowers, decor, venue, etc.  I also take into account what style of photography my couple is looking for.  Some prefer candids and don’t like posing for photos, while others want beautiful posed portraits and want to look like a model.  I try to capture a good mixture of everything, but I’m happy to accommodate their preferences.

“How have you evolved as a photographer?”

I have been a professional photographer for over 30 years.  I have gone from shooting film to digital.  I have always strived to shoot in a classic style that will not look dated over time.  During the film days when there weren’t any previews of the photos you were shooting, with practice and experience, I developed a repertoire of poses and key shots that I knew would always work and that every couple would like.  These were the “safe shots” or “money shots” that I knew I had mastered and that I could rely on for every wedding.  When digital came around, I was able to experiment more because I could see a preview of the images as I was shooting.  This gave me the freedom to experiment more which, I feel, made me a more creative photographer.  I feel I offer the best of both worlds because I learned the fundamentals of photography with film and became even more creative with digital technology.


“How do you connect with couples?”

My couples tell me that they appreciate my calm demeanor and easygoing personality.  This is something that is appreciated on the wedding day because it helps the couple stay calm on their wedding day.

“What is the difference between an experienced professional photographer and laypeople shooting with their cellphone cameras?”

Wedding photography is the one category that couples should invest in wisely because when the wedding is over, all you have left are your wedding photos.  You want to make sure you invest in an experienced professional photographer that can capture all the different events of a wedding day.  As I mentioned before, a professional photographer should be experienced with capturing flattering portraits, candids that capture authentic moments, and beautiful detail and venue shots.

These different photography styles is what it takes to capture the true essence of the wedding day.  You may love the style of your photographer that you are about to choose, but make sure they are experienced on how a wedding day flows.  This is important because you want to make sure your photographer doesn’t miss any key moments such as the first kiss, the first dance, etc.  Once the moment is over, it’s over.  There are no second takes on a wedding day.

“Why is wedding photography expensive?”

You pay for what you get!

“Anything else you want to add?”

Whomever you pick as your photographer, you want to make sure you get along with that person because your photographer will be with starting with you putting on the dress until the last dance.  You want to make sure that you like this person and that you vibe with their personality.

NorCal special: my favorite wedding venues

The famed Fairmont San Francisco

Where even to begin?

Iconic landmark. Prestigious historic mansion. Refuge of American presidents and foreign dignitaries. Even: movie set (for “The Rock” with Sean Connery!). The Fairmont San Francisco is all of this – and more. Walk its corridors, and see a whole gallery of the history of the City by the Bay – narrated through visits of the rich and famous, cultural icons and politicians to this incredible hotel.

Photo credit: Kevin Chin
Photo credit: Evonne and Darren

What better place for an elegant, sophisticated wedding celebration? Especially for an authentic San Francisco flavor, AND for true million-dollar views.

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Whether you are just enjoying an intimate elopement dinner in your room in the Fairmont Tower…

Photo credit: Gavin Farrington

… or have your big ceremony and dinner and dancing here, it will be an unforgettable celebration!

The Rooftop Garden is a perfect spot for outdoor ceremonies…

Photo credit: Kevin Chin

… while the adjacent Pavilion Room with its incredible Art Deco chandelier lends itself to indoor ceremonies.

Photo credit: Evonne and Darren
Photo credit: Evonne and Darren

Photo opportunities in the hotel include the majestic main staircase…

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… the lavishly appointed lobby …

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… the Rooftop Garden …

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… and, of course, the double-height Penthouse Suite where all American presidents stay when they visit San Francisco.

Photo credit: Evonne and Darren
Photo credit: Evonne and Darren
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You can, of course, have your whole wedding in this Penthouse Suite – it can accommodate up to 100 guests for a ceremony on the patio, cocktails in the living room, dinner in the dining room and, if you wish, dancing, too! And the best thing? Once your guests have left, you can simply stay and spend the night in one of the most luxurious bedrooms you’ve ever seen!

But we are getting ahead of ourselves… for a bigger wedding party, there are several glamorous ballrooms to choose from for dinner and dancing:

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… always with elegant tabletop items like silver chargers and cutlery included.

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And once the party is over, just look out over the City, together as a married couple. Nothing beats this romantic moment!

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So … now you know why the Fairmont is high up on my personal “Favorites” list! And the best thing: I’ll be back in a few months to create more wedding magic there… can’t wait!

Contact me at [email protected] for your free consultation.

A Day Like No Other – wedding coordination and design

“When only the best will do…”

Expert interview: Photographer Gavin Farrington

How to select your perfect wedding photographer

Here is another one of my favorite photographers. Gavin and I go back more than a decade, have collaborated many times on weddings and styled photoshoots, and I admire him tremendously – both his work and the person he is. He lives and breathes photography, and wedding photography in particular… so here is what HE has to say about it all.

“How did you get into photography and, in particular, into WEDDING photography? What is it that fascinates you about it?

My parents gave me a camera when I was little.  A  Kodak Instamatic. I loved playing with it, but even as a kid I could tell my pictures didn’t look like the photos I saw in magazines.  It wasn’t until high school, where I discovered we had an old defunct darkroom and worked to rebuild it, that I would start to learn photography.  But it wouldn’t be until years after college that I would consider photography professionally.

I honestly didn’t expect to love wedding photography.  I guess I had a bit of an art-school-snob attitude about it. Only when I worked at a wedding as an assistant photographer that I realized how much I loved observing people, and being part of an intimate day in people’s lives.

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“What is your specific style and why?”

The industry jargon is “wedding photojournalist.”  Many couples express this by using phrases like ‘authentic, natural, candid, organic, unintrusive, capturing the moment, real, un-posed’, and the like.  What matters to me for the finished product is that it connects you to memories that were in the moment, not memories of your photographer posing you, or telling you to do something again.

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“How have you evolved as a photographer?”

I started out working with very talented photographers who are brilliant at posing and staging breathtaking shots.  It was fun, and I learned a lot about lighting, technicals, etc., but for me it rang hollow when thinking about how a couple might relate to those images 20 or 30 years from now.  I often imagine, “if this couple has kids, and in 30 years those kids are home for Thanksgiving and pull out Mom and Dad’s album, are they going to look at those photos and see the people they know and love?  Or are they going to see expertly staged photographs?

http://gavinfarrington.com | IG @gavinfarringtonphotography
http://gavinfarrington.com | IG @gavinfarringtonphotography

“How do you connect with couples?”

One way I connect is through stories.  Like the time a grandmother hobbled slowly up the walk to stand before her granddaughter – the bride – and say, “I practiced walking with a cane so I could be here.”  I cried behind my camera.  I like to think that the photos of that moment are an important part of that bride’s memories of her.

“What is the difference between an experienced professional photographer and laypeople shooting with their cellphone cameras?”

Connection, curation, and situational experience.

‘Connection’ in that I am able to operate my camera fully manually without giving it a thought.  That gives me the space to pay attention to people, not camera settings.  I’m connecting with you from behind my camera.

‘Curation’ because not every single frame is going to be good, and not every single frame should be part of the finished product.  You want all the important moments, you don’t want every frame.

‘Situational experience’ is more technical in nature.  Weddings are not photo studios.  The majority of settings have no shortage of lighting challenges and unexpected moments.  Ideal lighting rarely happens.  How are you going to get a professional quality image without inserting yourself in the action and being a director all day?  After all, it’s your day – not mine.

http://gavinfarrington.com | IG @gavinfarringtonphotography
http://gavinfarrington.com | IG @gavinfarringtonphotography

“Why is wedding photography expensive?”

There are many factors playing into this.  I’ll touch on two.  First is that the hours spent at the wedding are only a small fraction of the total hours that go into producing your finished product.  We need to amortize the hourly cost on your invoice over the total hours it takes to deliver your finished product.  Another factor is the cost for all the years spent learning.  A photographer who makes it look easy only makes it look easy as a function of their experience.  It probably took 6 years before I was making minimum wage after averaging everything over the total hours spent building and running my business.

Thank you, Jutta!

Warmly,

Gavin
Owner & Lead Photographer, Gavin Farrington

NorCal special: my favorite wedding venues

Allied Arts Guild – my choice for smaller weddings

Allied Arts Guild is one of those hidden gems – you just have to see it to believe it! Tucked away behind high walls and hedges in the heart of Silicon Valley, Allied Arts Guild is a serene historic garden oasis, offering peace and beauty in our fast-paced world. Only minutes away from Stanford University and Stanford Shopping Center in Palo Alto, it truly feels a world away. Built in 1929 as a workplace for artists in authentic Spanish style and adorned with authentic tiles and objects of art from Spain, Tunis and Morocco…

Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Juan Pinnel

… this unique compound of art studios and a restaurant (Café Wisteria) serves to raise funds for critically ill children at Lucile Packard Children’s Hospital Stanford. Resident artists today range from jewelry designers to fashion designers to interior designers and everything in between, and the onsite Artisan Shop is noted for its exquisite handmade art pieces and lovely vintage items.

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The whole complex is available to rent for intimate weddings up to 140 guests, with indoor/outdoor options both for ceremony …

Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Vicens Forns

… and reception.

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Photo credit: Juan Pinnel
Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Vicens Forns
Photo credit: Vicens Forns

Now you know why I love Allied Arts Guild so much!

Intrigued? Contact Events DirectorTiana Wong for a tour or call 650-325-2450 and let us at A Day Like No Other help you to make your vision become reality!

NorCal special: my favorite wedding venues!

Today: Villa Montalvo, Saratoga

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Where even to begin?! One of the most beautiful historic mansions in the San Francisco Bay Area, it was built in 2011 for then-San Francisco mayor James Duval Phelan; the surrounding 160 acres of meadow and forest were transformed into a manicured park in the Italianate style by John McLaren (who also designed Golden Gate Park). The name “Villa Montalvo” is a reference to popular 16th-century Spanish writer Garci Ordóñez de Montalvo, who first coined the name “California.” At his death, Senator Phelan was explicit in his bequest of Villa Montalvo. “I would like Villa Montalvo, to be maintained as a public park and for the development of the arts.” And that is exactly what happened! Today, the villa welcomes elegant weddings for up to 250 guests with indoor/outdoor options – so you are literally covered even in case of inclement weather.

Photo credit: Danny Dong
Photo credit: Danny Dong

One of the property’s most popular ceremony sites is the Love Temple, set inside the Italianate Garden at the bottom of the Great Lawn. A wide, rose-lined brick path flanked by antique marble statues leads to this open-air, white-columned pavilion, and couples wed in view of the surrounding garden with the Villa and woods in the background.

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Directly behind the Villa, the Oval Garden offers a lush, intimate setting complete with classical statuary and wisteria-covered pergolas. A brick pathway serves as the center aisle, and a columned arcade makes a stately backdrop for exchanging vows. A third ceremony option is the new West Lawn Garden, which can accommodate 300+ guests.

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While the newlyweds are photographed on the picturesque grounds, family and friends enjoy cocktails either in the West Lawn Garden or the scenic Spanish Courtyard.

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Receptions follow on the Villa’s broad veranda, where everyone is treated to splendid garden vistas and the occasional visiting deer (and which can even be enclosed, should the weather not cooperate!)

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The Villa’s interior is equally impressive. All of the first floor’s adjoining rooms open onto the veranda, creating a wonderful flow to your event. The huge Main Hall at the center of the house boasts a high, beamed ceiling, gilded chandeliers and an enormous fireplace. The Hall is often used for dancing, its many French doors left open so that the music carries out to guests relaxing in the adjacent courtyard and on the veranda.

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Other unique gathering spots include the handsome Library, paneled with rare New Zealand walnut, and the Dining Room, a cozy salon with a century-old fireplace and richly paneled walls.

Perhaps the Villa’s most charming space is the Solarium, the perfect niche to showcase the wedding cake.

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And that’s not all: The entire upstairs is reserved for the wedding party and their immediate family. The three spacious suites include a lavish dressing room, with its own balcony overlooking the Great Lawn.

In short: Villa Montalvo is the PERFECT wedding venue – offering privacy, elegance, historic ambiance and innumerable beautiful spots, year round. No wonder I love it so much for my couples…

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Intrigued? Contact venue manager Bri Banners at [email protected], and for all your wedding planning needs, contact me at [email protected] for your free consultation.

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