How to write great vows: The 5 key elements

Posted on February 19, 2025 by jlammerts

Expert advice from Brian Franklin of Vows & Speeches

Today I have a special treat for all of you who are struggling to write your own vows: expert advice from a professional specializing in exactly THAT. I am reprinting his own “words of wisdom” – thank you, Brian, for helping us out here! We at A Day Like No Other and all our couples are so thankful for your advice!

As speechwriters for weddings and other events, we’ve helped write a lot of wedding vows. While there’s no substitute for working with a professional, where you’ll get help with both the writing and the delivery of them, here are five key elements that will help you make the most out of these moments.

1) Brevity:

The hardest part about writing vows is striking the balance between saying what you want to say and the knowledge that your guests are already ready to get to cocktails and may be baking in the hot sun. Two minutes is plenty of time to get across the most important sentiments, touch on the key aspects of your love, and still have a few vows at the end. Longer than that and it can easily be a bit tiresome and potentially start throwing off your timeline. Whatever you decide, it’s very important that you read it out loud, time it, and let your planner know how long it will be.

2) Personalization, Specificity, & Originality

Great vows don’t use generic language or clichés: They are personalized, specific, and original. For example, don’t say things like “you’re my person” but instead say “From that day that you stood in line—in the rain—to get me some pizza from Chiccareli’s because you knew it would make me happy after a hard day at work… I knew I was yours.” Don’t just talk about how much you love them… talk about WHY you love them. What do they do, specifically, that you love? What is it about them that is different? How do they show their love for you? What are the specific examples of how?

Some people, when they first hear about our business, Vows & Speeches, mistakenly think that getting help with writing their vows might make it less personal. In actuality, our interview process helps us dive deeper into their story and feelings about their partner and their relationship then they would have on their own. Over and over again, it’s the specific details we’re able to dislodge—sometimes little moments or aspects of our client’s relationship—that make for the best moments in their vows.

3) Humor

Every good relationship has an element of humor, so your vows should as well. Talk about what’s funny about you two. What makes you laugh? What do you tease each other about (that would be appropriate for a wedding). What do they do or collect that amuses you? What do they like that you hate, but can joke about? When we’re interviewing our clients, we’re looking for those fun parts that maybe won’t be laugh-out-loud jokes, but will put a smile on people’s faces and serve as a counterbalance and release from the heavily sentimental love stuff. Just don’t make jokes that could be potentially embarrassing, upsetting, or otherwise inappropriate for such an important moment.

4) Roughly equal length and quality

There is nothing more awkward that seeing one person say beautiful, fun, and meaningful vows that they clearly put a lot of time and thought into, and then it’s followed with vows that are super-short or clearly thrown together at the last minute after Googling “how to write wedding vows.” If one of you is struggling, lack the writing skills to put it together, or are just running out of time, then get help! We’re happy to help you make it shine.

5) Your actual vows have originality

At the end, there are usually 3-4 actual vows or promises, and as with the other parts of the vows, you’ll want to avoid anything generic or commonly used.

Instead, make promises that speak to what you know about your partner, or what you hope to do to be a better partner to them. You can also have a bit of fun with them. It’s the personalization of the actual vows—the originality that is specific to you and your relationship—that will make them meaningful and more engaging.

Here are some examples:

Vows & Speeches helps you find the words that are in your heart, and gives you the delivery coaching you need to make these moments everything they can be. If you would like some help to make your vows shine, or have questions, please reach out to [email protected], and for more information on Vows & Speeches, visit: https://vowsandspeeches.com.

Anja and Eric in the Redwoods

Posted on February 11, 2025 by jlammerts

A career lawyer working 12-hour days and a Dutch engineer traveling worldwide for business – when such a super-busy power couple plans a wedding, they need help. A lot of help. Anja and Eric realized that fact early on and enlisted my company, A Day Like No Other, shortly after booking their venue. As avid outdoorspeople, they had chosen Nestldown Estate, a 36-acre property of natural Redwoods, manicured lawns, elegant event spaces and whimsical extras like a lifesize toy train, a giant sand sculpture, a fairytale cottage, flying dragons… it is truly one-of-a-kind!

Our planning journey, as expected, happened with many starts and stops, depending on the couple’s workload and schedules. Catering, flowers, photo and video; music, guest entertainment, transportation and guest accommodations… there was a lot to be done! And finally, the Great Day had come.

For bride Anja, the day started with hair and makeup services by Design Her Image…

… while groom Eric was likewise busy with preparations.

Time to present herself to her groom for the first time in all her wedding beauty – First Look!

Photographer Ben Ingram and The Good Folk Film team captured every precious moment.

Meanwhile, the teams of Nestldown, A Day Like No Other, La Bocca Fina Catering and florist Green Petal Designs were frantically working behind the scenes to get all preparations done in time. Guests began arriving via shuttle (Corinthian Ground Transportation), and our DJ Woody Miraglia of Big Fun Disc Jockeys began playing prelude music in the “Chapel,” a natural clearing amidst towering Redwoods, accessed by a long flight of stairs which make for the most dramatic walk “down the aisle.”

The wedding ceremony was officiated by a longtime friend of the couple, and as such was very personal – and emotional.

Just married! “You may kiss your bride!”

While guests were invited to cocktails and hors d’oeuvres, musically accompanied by Victoria Studio (Victoria Liu), a duo playing classic Chinese tunes on authentic Chinese instruments, the newlyweds had many more photos to take…

Behind the scenes and unbeknowst to the guests, a Lion Dance Troupe (Lion Dance Me) was preparing for the big surprise of the day.

Once dining tables had been set up…

… guests were invited to attend the couple’s Tea Ceremony on the Main Lawn…

… and after that, the drumroll started!

Here come the cutest Chinese lions you’ve ever seen! They cozied up to the guests, batted their eyelashes and were altogether absolutely adorable.

Guests were delighted, and then dinner took place “under the stars” and under twinkling lights, accentuated with toasts and speeches.

After dinner, guests were invited to the “Barn” – the central function space at Nestldown – for Cake Cutting and dancing.

The “Barn” is a barn just by name (and by its architectural style) – it is in fact a rustic-elegant event space with everything you might wish for, including a monumental crystal chandelier…

… below which countless couples have performed their First Dance as husband and wife, just as these two here did. And except for the traditional Bouquet Toss and Cake Cutting…

… it was all DANCE, DANCE, DANCE for the rest of the night.

It was a truly unforgettable day. Anja’s and Eric’s Grand Send-off was the high point of the night:

Bubbles…

… and an exit in an authentic vintage London Taxi!

Bon voyage!

Allison and Jeston – whirlwind planning of a glamorous wedding

Posted on February 7, 2025 by jlammerts

If I had to give this wedding a label, it would be “classic elegance and glamour – in time lapse.” Why? We planners at A Day Like No Other had just six weeks to plan the whole elegant affair… while the couple was managing a household move! Our last vendor contract was confirmed on the day before the event. It was intense, to say the least… BUT the result was beautiful, and bride and groom were super happy!

Allison had chosen an incredible lace wedding dress with a long train and matching veil…

… and a classic bouquet in stunning purple (all florals by Green Petal Designs).

Here are their rings:

Ready for one pre-ceremony photo (all photos: Danny Dong) – without seeing each other, though!

After a wedding ceremony in their church, serenaded by harpist Aysha Gomez-Kureishi …

… the couple left for photos in a vintage white Rolls Royce (from NLS).

Off they went to the Redwoods, with their harpist bringing her gilded harp along!

Isn’t that spectacular?!

All the while, multiple vendor teams were hard at work to get everything ready for Allison’s and Jeston’s reception at the historic Peninsula Golf and Country Club – the venue team, my two production managers, Nimy and Deanna, the florist crew, and our Jazz trio (Magnolia Jazz). The gold-decorated wedding cake (from Copenhagen Bakery) was delivered, and when the newlyweds arrived, Cocktail Hour was already underway, and everything had been set up for dinner…

… in the grand ballroom of the Clubhouse, beneath glamorous crystal chandeliers. The tables were adorned with lush floral centerpieces, part of them towering and part of them low and overflowing their silver compotes …

Everybody was having a great time (including the newlyweds!) .. .

… serenaded by the Magnolia Jazz Trio.

Allison and Jeston shared their First Dance as a married couple…

… and, following tradition, the bride tossed her bouquet to “all the single ladies.”

What else? Cake cutting, of course!

After that, it was only dancing, dancing, dancing… until the couple’s Grand Send-off!

Wishing you a lifetime of happiness, Allison and Jeston!

Are you inspired for your own wedding? Contact me at [email protected] for your free consultation.

A Day Like No Other – wedding coordination and design

“When only the best will do…”

Aileen and Yao at the Presidential Penthouse Suite

Posted on January 7, 2025 by jlammerts

Aileen and Yao were already planning their big, big wedding in their native Korea – but they also wanted to host a smaller event for their local friends in the San Francisco Bay Area. 50 guests, give or take… BUT elegant. What better place for that than famous Penthouse Suite in the Fairmont San Francisco, home to all US presidents and foreign dignitaries visiting the City. The couple booked my company, A Day Like No Other, to help with the festivities … and here we go!

While photographer Allexa Crosson and videographer Sig Reboquio were already documenting all the pretty details, from rings to invitations to flowers…

… the Fairmont staff under the leadership of event manager Jim Bast was busy repositioning furniture in the suite and starting kitchen operations.

Bride and groom were getting dressed…

… and florist Nancy Liu Chin delivered the bridal bouquet, boutonnieres and many, many floral arrangements for centerpieces and other tables. She also decorated the fountain on the patio with floating flowers…

… for a romantic and very polished effect.

Time for the couple’s First Look…

… with the SF City skyline as their glorious backdrop. And then – many more photos!!

Here in the famous Billiards Room – a Moroccan folly entirely decorated with elaborate tiles…

… in the two-story library whose ceiling is decorated with the outlines of constellations and where a secret passageway to the rooftop opens behind a moveable bookshelf (an escape route for all the royalty and dignitaries staying here on a regular basis…

… and in the elegant living room of the Penthouse apartment – adorned with intricately carved wood paneling, an elaborate fireplace surround and priceless antiques.

After their ceremony, officiated by a friend on the patio overlooking the meanwhile foggy City skyline, it was time to party!

Cocktails and hors d’oeuvres were served in the living room…

… and the newlyweds raised a glass to their union. DJ Marcus Lee (from Paul Stylez Events) had the music going, and everyone was in a joyful, festive mood. In the meantime, the Jim Bast and the Fairmont team and my assistant Nimy and I were hard at work to get the dining room ready for dinner…

Every place setting was adorned with a wedding-ring shaped sugar cookie…

… and a handwritten personal Thank You note by the couple – a true “labor of love!”

After dinner and speeches, Aileen and Yao were ready for their Grand Entrance …

… and their choreographed First Dance:

… followed by a truly “wild” Father-Daughter Dance to the tune of “Heartbreaker!”

The rest of the evening was one big upbeat dance party, only interrupted by Cake Cutting (Cake by Intincing Creations).

What a party! What’s next? Another REALLY big party back in the couple’s native Korea! Congratulations, Aileen and Yao!

A & E – a magical late-summer wedding

Posted on December 20, 2024 by jlammerts

In the first half of 2024, I had the pleasure of planning and designing a very special wedding event – a celebration for a very private couple whom we shall call here “A” and “E.” When I first met them, they were already legally married; they’d had an intimate, family-only ceremony in their backyard on an auspicious date by the Chinese horoscope. The “real party” had to wait – and THAT they entrusted to my company, A Day Like No Other.

Our first task was to find an elegant venue with a view not too far from the couple’s home, and I was able to present several options to them. What they spontaneously loved was a spectacular place, perched high atop a mountain ridge with views from the Golden Gate Bridge to Silicon Valley: Thomas Fogarty Winery.

The next vendor decision was an equally easy and spontaneous one: photography team Danny and Julia Dong who captured the magic of the location and the beauty of the occasion from start to finish. Collideskope videographers joined them and recorded all those precious moments throughout the day.

After preparations at home …

… with hair and makeup services by Wowpretty Salon, bride, groom and bridal party transferred to the venue (all transportation provided by Corinthian Ground Transportation) where many vendor teams were already hard at work to get everything set up in time. Florist Karen Baba of PlanDecor begun decorating the couple’s own arch, while the bride was helped into her elaborate, light platinum-colored dress …

…by her bridesmaids.

What an incredible train!

After putting on her princess heels and receiving her gorgeous bridal bouquet, A. was ready to show herself to her “Prince Charming” …

… who had likewise been prepared by his groomsmen.

After their official First Look, bride and groom had many, many photos to take…

… first only the two of them, and then with their attendants.

Bride and bridesmaids were CLEARLY very happy with their flowers!

Guests were already arriving (via Corinthian shuttles), and DJ Derek Mizuno of Entourage Events put the finishing touches on his sound setup, supporting the soloists who, as friends of the couple, were performing as well.

The ceremony was officiated by a friend of the couple…

… in bright sunshine and with a lot of joy and smiles!

Just married! More photos for the newlyweds, while guests were treated to Fogarty wines and delicious hors d’oeuvres by Michi Catering and the photo booth (from Entourage Events) offered fun for everyone.

Dinner is ready! The Michi team had set the tables with elegant gold-rimmed china, matching gold-toned flatware, pink glassware and with shimmering lavender napkins in a loose knot…

… and florist Karen’s centerpieces provided a big pop of lively color – especially on the Sweetheart Table!

The sunset on A & E’s wedding day was spectacular – unforgettable together with the endless views…

Once dinner was over, everyone moved inside for Cake Cutting (cake by PQ Fung/ Pastry Atelier PQ) …

… and dancing. The couple had practiced an intricate choreographed First Dance routine that left everyone utterly speechless.

With that, the dance floor was officially open, and guests only took a short break to help themselves to the mouthwatering pastries from the dessert table (Pastry Atelier PQ).

The conclusion of the evening was as spectacular as the day itself – with a shimmering bubble exit for the newlyweds!

Wishing you a lifetime of happiness together!

Rachel and Jim – a one-of-a-kind union

Posted on December 19, 2024 by jlammerts

Rachel and Jim had met and lived together for more than two decades, literally “growing old together,” and then they decided to make their union official – and for that occasion they were envisioning an elegant, warm celebration with their children, grandchildren and circle of the friends acquired over a lifetime. What better setting for such a one-of-a-kind wedding than the storied Fairmont San Francisco? So Rachel and Jim secured it for their venue. And then… they realized that a lot more needed to be planned. A whole lot more. I am honored that they chose my company, A Day Like No Other, to make their vision a reality. We jumped right in… and over a yearlong collaboration on vendor bookings, logistics, design and decor, we truly became good friends!

The couple began their wedding day at their “homebase,” their room at the Fairmont….

… with this unbeatable view of the City and the Bay.

While Rachel had her hair done by her longtime hair stylist Eric Webb and her makeup applied by Tiffany Chiang of Design Her Image, photographer extraordinaire Kevin Chin captured the beautiful details.

Then bride and groom helped each other getting ready …

And even if they had seen each other during the morning preparations, Rachel wanted to have a traditional “First Look.” She was soooo excited!

Here they are, on the glorious main staircase in the Fairmont lobby.

It was so moving to see… and then it was time for many, many photos.

Meanwhile, frantic preparations were underway to get everything ready in time for guest arrival, the ceremony and Cocktail Hour and, of course, for the reception with dinner and dancing. The Fairmont team, led by Corrine Mitten, had set everything up for us already (thank you!); florist Karen Baba of Plan Decor was busy decorating the chuppah on the Fairmont Rooftop Garden; DJ Tyler Huffman and the Rhonda Sauce Jazz Trio (both from Ivy Hill Entertainment) were getting situated for sound and music, and my assistant Deanna and I were coordinating the myriad details behind the scenes.

We set up the WELCOME sign – which I had custom-designed based on the couple’s choice of invitation card, with a custom color scheme based on – you won’t believe it – the carpet pattern in the ballroom! Its elegant eggplant and antique gold arabesques were the inspiration for the whole color scheme, resulting in a very cohesive overall look and feel. These colors were ultimately chosen because they also fit so well with the bride’s dress choice of teal silk – the bridal bouquet and floral arrangements (from PlanDecor) were kept in rich jewel tones (the bride’s favorite colorway), again based on eggplant and gold.

Next came the Guest Book table – with the signage again showing the motifs and colors of the invitations; the guest book cover picking up the eggplant hue, and the big floral arrangement playing along.

Next up: Ketubah signing before the wedding ceremony.

And with that, the two are actually MARRIED.

The chuppah was waiting, resplendent in, you guessed it, eggplant, yellow and jeweltones …

All guests had meanwhile arrived, and the great moment had come! To the tunes of Rascal Flatt’s God Bless the Broken Road (played by DJ Tyler Huffman of Ivy Hill Entertainment), Rachel and Jim walked down the aisle.

The two “broke the traditional glass” TOGETHER…

… and then the whole congregation broke out chanting “Mazel Tov” to the newlyweds.

While the new couple enjoyed a little quiet retreat – and then had many more photos to take – their guests were treated to a Cocktail reception in the Pavilion Room ….

… with live entertainment by the Rhonda Sauce jazz trio.

Meanwhile, we all put the finishing touches on the elaborate dinner setup in the Crown Room…

… where subtly shimmering eggplant-colored linens and napkins (from Napa Valley Linens) coordinated perfectly with the room’s interior and intimate lounge seating (from Hensley Event Resources) in the recesses of the ballroom invited guests to quiet conversations and little breaks from the festivities.

The tall centerpieces, literally hovering above the dining tables, formed a lively color accent – without interfering with conversation across the table (something the groom had been adamant about!).

To round out the lush, rich look and warm feel of the elegant ballroom, we added a large number of tall living plants – stunning palm tree varietals and huge Bird-of-Paradise plants (from Indoor Greenery) from the entrance steps to the whole perimeter and at strategic spots in the room.

Guests found their table assignments through eggplant-colored escort cards in the exact same design as all other signage – just in an “inverted” colorway!

Ready for dinner! The newlyweds kicked off the dinner-and-dancing portion of their celebration with their Grand Entrance and First Dance to the song How Sweet It Is by Marvin Gaye (professionally choreographed by and practiced with Cynthia Glinka of Dance with Glinka).

With that, dinner service began, live music accompanied the feast, and many family members and guests proposed toasts and well-wishes. Once dinner was finished, Rachel and Jim had one more important task to accomplish: cutting their cake – traditionally the first shared task of a newlywed couple.

Per our wishes, the talented Kelly Zubal of Inticing Creations had decorated the elegant white cake with the exact floral motif that formed the common thread from invitation to signage to wedding decor.

Once that was done, everyone flocked to the dance floor to kick off the dance party with an exuberant Hora Dance during which, traditionally, the newlyweds are hoisted high up above the dancing crowd – and that’s exactly what we did!

From that point on, there was no holding back on the dance floor, and DJ…. kept everyone exactly there! It was a wonderful, unforgettable celebration – and bride and groom were SO HAPPY!!

Wishing you this happiness together for every single day, Rachel and Jim!

Creating magic through lighting

Posted on November 13, 2024 by jlammerts

What’s MY magic wand for creating ambiance? Lighting. It can transform any room dramatically, enhance its beauty and make less-attractive areas literally disappear in the shadows.

And here are the dramatic changes in what a room can look like…

with regular white lighting:

… or with gold-toned uplights around the perimeter…

… or transformed into a sensuous lounge with dimmed ceiling lights and dark red uplights…

… or with a “clubby” vibe in purple:

… or back to elegance with gold-toned pinspots on the individual tables:

… or (my personal favorite) illuminated by candlelight!

Point made – the room looks and feels totally different in different light.

Which one is YOUR favorite?

Floral decor for your wedding dinner – the top styles

Posted on November 11, 2024 by jlammerts

One of my favorite design aspects for any wedding I create is the floral decor for the wedding dinner. The style is, of course, a reflection of the overall aesthetic of that given wedding celebration – so here are the absolute frontrunners in my wedding design practice.

Rustic green garland with flowers and fruits

For an elevated rustic style, the all-time favorite is a green garland with flowers and fruits on bare wooden “harvest” tables:

Isn’t that pretty? Combine with beautiful crossback chairs, ceramic plates, maybe colored glassware and even gold-toned cutlery – guests will LOVE it.

Classic elegance in white

For a classic-elegant look, you can never go wrong with white-on-white high/low centerpieces; either double-height like in this image, or half the tables with a tall arrangement and the other half, alternating, with low arrangements. Roses, lilies and orchids are the “gold standard” for this look.

Add shimmering white linens, gold-rimmed china and either upholstered dining chairs or gold-toned “Chiavari” chairs – and voila! Timeless elegance.

A dream in pink

Lastly – the ever-popular romantic pastel palette AND floral chandeliers! That’s how to create “WOW” at your wedding…

Matching draping of the perimeter, chair covers with a bow and an abundance of candlelight complete this dreamy look. Just be aware that not all venues allow to hang something from the ceiling (and floral chandeliers are surprisingly heavy!) – so ask first before you order.

Inspired? Contact me at [email protected].

Another look at hot 2025 wedding trends

Posted on November 9, 2024 by jlammerts

We expect that in 2025, weddings will be all about personalization, sustainability, and immersive experiences that create unforgettable memories. Couples are opting for intimate celebrations with unique elements, leaving a lasting impression on guests. From eco-friendly practices to cutting-edge technology, here’s a look at the top trends that we at A Day Like No Other foresee transforming the wedding landscape in 2025.

1. Eco-Friendly Weddings 🌱

With a growing focus on sustainability, couples are choosing to make eco-conscious choices for every aspect of their wedding, from invitations to decor. Biodegradable confetti, plantable invitations, and locally-sourced catering are becoming popular. Minimalist designs, such as using seasonal flowers or potted plants as decor, add to the sustainable ethos. Would that be the right thing for you?

2. High-Tech Touches and Virtual Components 💻

Technology is enhancing wedding experiences through augmented reality (AR), drones, and live-streaming. Couples can now invite guests who can’t attend in person through VR technology, creating an immersive experience. Digital guest books and AR photo booths are also becoming staples. Since the vast majority of MY clients are working in high tech in Silicon Valley, I will definitely offer such suggestions to them!

3. Personalized Wedding Attire 👗

Brides and grooms are opting for custom-made attire that reflects their personalities. Some are choosing bold colors, while others are selecting multifunctional outfits that can transform from ceremony to reception style. Non-traditional choices, such as jumpsuits, detachable skirts, and embroidered accessories, are popular. One of my latest couples celebrated their cultural heritage – bride Gypsy, groom Viking – in their wedding attire, similar to the photo below. The gentlemen actually wore raw furs as collars!

4. Micro-Weddings with Macro Experiences 🌍

The trend of intimate weddings continues, with couples investing in high-quality experiences for a smaller guest list. Micro-weddings allow for unique touches like destination ceremonies, gourmet tasting menus, and elaborate, multi-day celebrations. The latest dream destinations: St. Barth’s, Anguilla, Bora Bora… and of course Iceland, which is still a big trend.

5. Bold Color Schemes and Statement Florals 💐

Couples are embracing bold colors like emerald green, royal blue, and deep burgundy for a striking look. Statement florals, such as oversized arrangements or flowers suspended from the ceiling, add drama to the decor. Floral arches and hanging gardens are also gaining popularity. It’s really, “Go big or go home!”

6. Interactive Food and Drink Stations 🍹

Interactive dining experiences are a huge hit in 2025. Couples are setting up live cooking stations, custom cocktail bars, and dessert stations where guests can personalize their orders. Think DIY pizza bars, gourmet s’mores stations, and signature cocktail mixology sessions. One of my recent couples had a sushi roll station, another one a creme brulee bar (with custom toppings). The possibilities are nearly endless!

7. Unique Venue Choices 🏞️

Traditional venues are taking a back seat to unique, offbeat locations. In 2025, couples are choosing to host weddings at unconventional venues such as art galleries, botanical gardens, rustic barns, and even ancient ruins. Outdoor weddings at vineyards or mountaintops are still trendy. I have done wedding ceremonies on the decks of historic tallships and chartered yachts… one in a recording studio where celebrities like Willie Nelson did recordings… one at Monterey Bay Aquarium, one at the SF Academy of Sciences. Are you already getting inspired?!

8. Interactive Entertainment 🎶

From live bands to immersive experiences like magicians or caricature artists, couples want entertainment that engages guests. Silent discos, hologram performers, and interactive storytelling for speeches are emerging as popular options. Several of my couples have booked artists to capture the wedding day through live painting. We’ve had dance instruction in Charleston moves for a Great Gatsby-themed wedding; there are poets for hire who will write a haiku for each guest. Again, so many possibilities!

9. Weekday Weddings 📅

To save costs and access more availability, couples are increasingly opting for weekday weddings. They often add unique elements like a weekend getaway for guests or hosting pre-wedding dinners and post-wedding brunches to create a multi-day celebration. And the cost savings are substantial! (That is, if you choose Monday through Thursday – Friday weddings are already considered “regular” wedding days…). Just keep in mind that your guests would have to take days off to attend; a weekday date might make it impossible for some.

10. Modern Wedding Registries 🎁

Traditional registries are being replaced by experiential gifts. While in the past, it was considered rude and very bad style to ask for cash gifts, the rules have relaxed in the last few years. Couples are opting for cash funds towards home renovations, honeymoon adventures, or contributions toward experiences like cooking classes or wine tastings, instead of the standard kitchenware and appliances. Chinese couples have always been and are still in luck here: cash gifts in the famous “red envelopes” are a time-honored tradition in the Chinese culture. No etiquette fauxpas here!

Conclusion:

We at A Day Like No Other anticipate that 2025 will be a year of breaking traditions and embracing innovation in the wedding industry. From sustainable choices to high-tech enhancements, each trend is about creating a memorable, personalized experience. Couples are encouraged to prioritize their values, invest in quality over quantity, and create a celebration that truly represents them.

The 5 hottest wedding trends for 2025

Posted on September 8, 2024 by jlammerts

Planning a wedding in 2025? Here are the five hottest trends that will make your special day unforgettable. From eco-friendly designs to futuristic tech, weddings in 2025 are all about personalization and innovation.

1. Eco-Friendly Weddings

Sustainability is not just a buzzword—it’s becoming a wedding essential. In 2025, eco-conscious couples are opting for environmentally friendly décor, using locally sourced, seasonal flowers (which is also the most budget-friendly option!), sustainable materials like wood and bamboo, and minimizing waste. Another way to do that? Restrict the use of anything disposable – rent china, glassware and flatware instead (it looks much nicer, too!). Expect more outdoor ceremonies where nature is the star of the show, adding a touch of elegance while remaining kind to the planet. Many of MY couples have been making this exact choice for years: look at these examples!

2. Romantic Pastel Palettes

If you’re dreaming of a fairytale wedding, pastel color schemes are here to stay. Soft hues of pink, lavender, and baby blue create a romantic, ethereal vibe. Floral arrangements and whimsical lighting add to the charm, turning your venue into a dreamy, almost magical setting. These colors pair beautifully with delicate decor, like sheer curtains and vintage table settings – AND with the trendy not-only-white wedding dresses like this dream dress by Savin of London.

3. Micro-Weddings with an Intimate Touch

Micro-weddings are continuing to rise in popularity, with couples focusing on quality over quantity. Fewer guests mean more intimacy and the chance to spoil your loved ones with personalized touches, such as handwritten notes, custom playlists, or bespoke meals. The cozy atmosphere of a small wedding also allows for more meaningful interactions with each guest – without guests whispering to each other, “And how are YOU connected to the couple?!” One example from this summer: a couple who invited their family and closest friends to a FIVE DAY wedding weekend at a remote resort, to spend quality time with the people they love. Another example: my smallest wedding ever – a mature couple and their grown children, 5 persons total.

4. Futuristic Tech-Inspired Weddings

For couples looking to add a modern twist, 2025 brings weddings infused with futuristic elements. Think metallic color palettes, LED lighting and dance floors, holographic decorations, and smart technology to create an immersive experience. From interactive dance floors to custom light shows (think drone shows!), tech weddings are both innovative and fun, ensuring your guests will never forget the night. One of my couples – both mathematicians – even named their tables after their favorite algorithms!

5. Destination Weddings with a Boho Twist

Destination weddings continue to reign, especially on breathtaking beaches and exotic landscapes – among other things, because the guest count is mostly significantly lower than at a close-by wedding venue, again shifting the emphasis from quantity of guests to quality of experience. However, 2025 is bringing a boho-chic aesthetic to these getaways. Picture tropical flowers, soft textiles, and relaxed, rustic décor paired with the natural beauty of a sunset backdrop. The vibe is relaxed yet luxurious, making it perfect for adventurous couples seeking something unique. Examples? Here they are – from two of my couples of years ago. They were clearly ahead of their time!

Kevin Chin photography, bouquet by Green Petal Designs

Each of these trends brings its own special flair, so whichever direction you choose, your 2025 wedding will definitely be one-of-a-kind and “so YOU!”

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