Honeymoon destinations: Venice

Venice – the stuff of dreams and legend… famously built on a series of wooden poles (pilings) driven deep into the soft, muddy floor of a lagoon in the Adriatic See, dotted with 118 small islands —a remarkable feat of medieval engineering.

The city was founded in the 5th century by refugees fleeing barbarian invasions. To build stable foundations in the marshy Venetian lagoon, early settlers drove millions of wooden poles, often made from water-resistant wood like alder, larch, or oak, through the mud and into the compact clay beneath. These poles supported wooden platforms, which were then topped with stone foundations and buildings.

Surprisingly, the wood didn’t rot. Submerged in oxygen-poor, silt-filled water, the wood petrified over time, becoming incredibly durable. This unique technique allowed entire structures—from homes to cathedrals—to stand atop shifting, waterlogged terrain.

Most of the city’s iconic buildings—including St. Mark’s Basilica and the Doge’s Palace

… still rest on these ancient pilings. The result is a floating city of stone and marble, literally rooted in wood – and ingenuity.

Its architecture reflects this rich history—most famously in St. Mark’s Basilica, with its Byzantine domes and glittering mosaics, and the Gothic Doge’s Palace, a symbol of Venice’s political and artistic grandeur. Strolling through Piazza San Marco

… visitors are surrounded by elegant facades, soaring bell towers, and intricate stonework that blend Eastern and Western influences.

Most of Venice’s iconic buildings—including St. Mark’s Basilica and the Doge’s Palace—still rest on these ancient pilings. The result is a floating city of stone and marble, rooted in wood and ingenuity.

It also means, that in Venice city blocks and neighborhoods are connected by canals, not streets.

Venice emerged as a major trade power during the Middle Ages and Renaissance, thanks to its strategic location at the crossroads of East and West. Situated on the Adriatic Sea, the city became a thriving maritime republic, dominating commerce between Europe and the Byzantine and Islamic worlds. Venetian merchants traded in spices, silk, precious metals, and glass, building vast wealth and influence. The city developed powerful fleets and established trading posts across the Mediterranean and Black Seas, securing exclusive contracts and privileges.

One of Venice’s most famous figures, Marco Polo, symbolized the city’s global reach.

In the late 13th century, he traveled the Silk Road to China and served at the court of Kublai Khan. His detailed accounts introduced Europeans to the wonders of the East and inspired generations of explorers.

Through innovation, diplomacy, and naval strength, Venice became a commercial empire—its legacy still reflected in its opulent palaces, art, and cosmopolitan spirit.

Venice is also a city of art – from the Venetian Renaissance masters like Titian and Tintoretto to the avant-garde Venice Biennale. Not to forget – glass art, at home on the island of Murano (where glass mirrors were invented) …

… and the lace handicraft on the island of Burano.

You need to visit them all! And then there is the famous Venice Carnival, one of the world’s most iconic and enchanting festivals, celebrated each year in the lead-up to Lent. Steeped in history, the event dates back to the 12th century and flourished during the Renaissance, offering Venetians a period of indulgence and anonymity behind elaborate masks. Infamously, it was the time of the most murders in Venice, throughout the year…

Today, the Carnival transforms Venice into a magical stage of elegance, mystery, and theatricality. Locals and visitors alike dress in lavish 18th-century costumes, adorned with handcrafted masks ranging from simple eye covers to ornate full-face designs. The city’s piazzas, canals, and palaces host a dazzling array of events—from masquerade balls and street performances to gondola parades and costume contests.

And if you go, the Hotel Cipriani is my personal recommendation for your luxurious home base for all your excursions. Want to see it before you go? Watch The Tourist with Jennifer Lopez and Johnny Depp (which was filmed there) and be vowed! Or see our own couple Philipp and Michelle right there…

Enjoy and send photos!

Honeymoon destination: the Maldive Islands

The Maldive Islands are a world-renowned tourist destination, celebrated for its stunning natural beauty, luxurious resorts, and vibrant marine life. Located in the Indian Ocean, this island nation comprises over 1,000 coral islands grouped into 26 atolls, offering pristine white-sand beaches, crystal-clear turquoise waters, and spectacular sunsets.

It all started in the 1980s as an unspoiled location for hardcore SCUBA divers – the colorful reefs on the Maldives were untouched and unmatched in their natural beauty. There was no “tourism” to speak of… very few of the tiny islands – most of them easily walked around in 20 minutes! – had any accommodations, and the ones there were consisted of primitive coral rock huts. (I happen to know because I was one of these first dive enthusiasts…). Fast-forward twenty years, and luxury hotel chains discovered this island paradise, from Hilton to Four Seasons to St. Regis… pools and tennis courts were built, and these days you’ll find luxury amenities, food and entertainment.

A favorite for honeymooners, SCUBA divers, and luxury travelers, the Maldives combine tropical serenity with exceptional hospitality. Visitors these days stay in iconic overwater bungalows …

enjoy world-class snorkeling and diving among coral reefs teeming with marine life …

… any type of watersports…

… or relax with spa treatments and private beachfront dining.

Whether you’re seeking romantic seclusion, underwater adventures, or a high-end wellness retreat for your honeymoon, the Maldives offer a unique blend of tranquility and indulgence, making it an absolute tropical dream destination.

Honeymoon destination: the Dolomiti

Do you love the mountains – and good food? Then this is the perfect honeymoon for you. Growing up in Europe in a mountain-hiking family, the Dolomiti were a natural vacation destination, so I’ve seen a lot of them! The most dramatic, rugged mountains, juxtaposed with gently rolling foothills dotted with vineyards and apple orchards and with picturesque little towns and villages where Time has stood still and where the best food you’ve ever tasted is served alongside local wines.

You will likely make the historic city of Merano your base camp for your mountainhiking expeditions – and there is some history to take in! As the capital of a region that over the course of the last millenium has been handed back and forth between Germany, Austria and Italy (South Tyrol or Alto Adige), it has become bilingual (Italian and German) and absorbed the best of both cultures, both north and south of the Alps. It has seen even Hannibal and his army marching through in 218 BC, complete with 40 elephants!

Go visit the “Erzbischoefliche Burg,” the castle originally built for the local archbishop…

… and simply explore the city and the myriad trattorias…

Another “must” is an excursion to Alpe di Siusi (Seiser Alm), a highland area of expansive wildflower meadows, age-old villages and a cute little tram connecting them all – and of course, cable cars take you up to the surrounding mountaintops, unless you are ambitious enough to climb them!

I am sure you are enchanted now… happy travels!

Honeymoon destinations: Paris

The city of light, the city of love – once in your lifetime, you HAVE to see it, so why not for your honeymoon? Believe me, it IS magical – still, despite the traffic and the tourists…

One of my own fondest memories is arriving at the Gare du Nord via night train with my then-fiance, now-husband, at the crack of dawn – way too early to check into our hotel. We left our luggage at the station and walked. We watched the sun rise in the Jardin du Luxembourg.

We wandered the streets as the city was waking up. It was a rare epiphany: we felt the soul of the city… beyond the Eiffel Tower.

Yes, of course, you should visit the Eiffel Tower, that’s a “must” for all tourists, but there is so much more! The Palace du Louvre with its world-famous museum and the glass pyramid in front …

… the newly restored and reopened Notre-Dame cathedral, one of the greatest Gothic masterpieces…

The Seine with its many bridges (and don’t forget a boat tour on a bateau mouche – maybe at night..)

… the Palais Royal…

… and long strolls throught the St. Germain des Pres neighborhood.

This here is MY Paris… quiet, romantic, and steeped in history.

Bon voyage!

Like on TV: Cold sparklers at your wedding!

You’ve seen these stunning sparklers on TV, I am sure – and now you can have them for your wedding! Be it to accentuate your pronouncement as husband and wife, be it to give your First Dance extra glamour – this fantastic visual effect is now available for private events. And that is great, given that nearly everywhere across the nation, fireworks and regular sparklers are no longer permitted, due to the fire hazard they constitute. So what makes cold sparklers less dangerous and more accessible?

Cold sparklers, also known as cold spark machines, are special effects devices used to create stunning spark fountain displays. Unlike traditional fireworks, they produce a controlled stream of sparks that are cool to the touch and safe for indoor use when operated correctly.

They are called “cold” because the sparks they emit are generated from a powdered titanium alloy and burn at a much lower temperature than conventional pyrotechnics—typically under 130°F (55°C). This significantly reduces the risk of fire or burns, making them safer around people, fabrics, and decor. Mark my words: “safer” – not completely safe. The sparks can still cause burns or a fire, and that is the reason whycold spark machines are still classified as pyrotechnic devices nearly everywhere and require a pyrotechnics license and a permit to operate them. Laws vary by location, but you absolutely need to find out ahead of time the requirements for your particular location – even if DJ companies offer their cold spark machines along their DJ’ing, MC’ing and photo booth services. Don’t be fooled… if you book them for your event despite their lack of a proper license, all liability falls to you. Believe me, I had to do thorough research for one of my brides, and this is the result. Better safe than sorry!

And now – enjoy the (cold sparkler) show!

Dream Honeymoon Destinations: Mauritius

For the start of my new series, let’s begin with my own honeymoon destination – still a tropical dream!

An island country in the Indian Ocean, 2,000 km off the coast of East Africa and east of Madagascar, it is part of the Mascarene Islands of volcanic origin, and a true melting pot of cultures, religions and languages – where just over a million of Mauritians of Indian, Chinese, French and Creole origin live together peacefully. The capital city Port Louis is home to a daily market with an overwhelming selection of fresh fruit and local spices – you’ll never forget that aroma, nor the aroma of the multicultural Creole cuisine with Indian, French and African influences. I learned cooking curries there… and it has stayed with me to the present day!

Mauritius is a dream honeymoon destination, with turquoise waters and white powdery sand on postcard-perfect beaches—for example Belle Mare and the serene lagoons of Le Morne.

Beyond sunbathing and every watersport imaginable, newlyweds can hike in the lush Black River Gorges, enjoy local culture ….

… swim with dolphins, encounter the diverse wildlife ….

… go on a helicopter tour of the island, or take a catamaran to uninhabited islets.

Sunset beach dinners, private villa stays, and spa experiences make it easy to unwind and disconnect from the daily grind. Chances are, you simply want to stay there… for the rest of your married life!

Sarah and Justin – cherished traditions for their wedding

A couple very mindful of their cultural and religious traditions – AND of family tradition! They got married in exactly the same spot where the bride’s parents had tied the knot, 35 years prior. Only difference: this time the weather was much better!

The “spot” was Thomas Fogarty Winery, an elegant event venue perched on a ridge high above Silicon Valley, with endless views to the San Francisco skyline, and surrounded by producing vineyards – the wines from these vineyards were, of course, served at the celebration! But I am getting ahead of myself…

After a year of planning with my company, A Day Like No Other, the big day had finally arrived.

After hair and makeup styling at her parents’ home, Sarah was driven to Fogarty Winery where she would dress up and present herself to her future husband officially for the first time – a “First Look.”

The quintessential mother-daughter moment with the mother preparing her daughter for getting married.

Florist Janelle Jacky-Litt of Green Petal Designs provided Sarah with her bridal bouquet…

… in elegant white-on-white, textured and with a feminine softness – and there she is in all her finery!

Immediately after their First Look on a balcony overlooking the vineyards and the valley, Sarah and Justin read their personal vows to each other – a very tender and unforgettable moment for both of them.

While both were taking lots and lots of photos with photographer extraordinaire Gavin Farrington and his assistant Paula, all the vendor teams were hard at work with preparations. And regarding photos: for now, all we have are my cellphone snapshots – just wait until you see the professional photos!!

The ceremony area was set up with chairs, a chuppah and lavish floral decor (by Green Petal Designs),

and tables were set in pretty ivory, green and gold for the alfresco dinner in the Pavilion.

My assistant Quan and I set up the elegant WELCOME sign that the artistically gifted bride had created herself, along with all other wedding stationery; and there were a myriad of other details to take care of…

DJ .Zhaldee of Entourage Events was setting up sound systems, Rabbi Debbie Pine arrived for the ceremony, and violinist Joyce Lee got settled to accompany this ceremony with classical tunes.

Guests arrived via shuttle buses (from Corinthian Ground Transportation), and soon we were ready for the long-anticipated, big moment. Here comes the bride!

After a traditional Jewish ceremony…

… Sarah and Justin broke a glass, also per tradition, and were declared “husband and wife.”

Just married!! And soooo happy…

Next? More photos, of course – and cocktails and hors d’oeuvres (by Culinary Eye Catering) …

… for the guests who were asked to write their well-wishes and messages for the newlyweds on vintage travel postcards, to be gathered into a keepsake album.

“Travel” was a big theme at this wedding as this is the couple’s shared passion – they got engaged in Kenya, for starters! And that’s why tables were named after some of their favorite destinations, “Nairobi” rubbing shoulders with “San Francisco…” and “Cancun” with “Tahoe!”

Guests found their assigned tables on a mirrored seating chart…

The table settings were elegant…

… and the food (by Culinary Eye Catering) incredible.

The couple opened dinner with their Grand Entrance and subsequent First Dance…

… and after dinner, it was only dessert …

… and more dancing! What a day!

Congratulations and a long, happy life together to Sarah and Justin!

Sally and Chris – a Persian/American fantasy

Two super-busy young professionals, living out of state, planning an elaborate wedding at Nestldown Estate just outside Silicon Valley – it’s clear they needed assistance! I was so honored that they chose my company, A Day Like No Other, to help with the planning and design, and the bride’s parents took over the tasks of site visits and tastings that had to be done in-person. After a year of planning and designing, everything finally came together beautifully under blue skies and a warming May sunshine.

For Sally and her friends, her sister, mother and mother-in-law, the day began at the elegant Hotel Los Gatos

… where they all received beauty services by Felicia Wei and assistants of Bun Bun Bridal Lab – and look how gorgeous the results were! Photographer Gavin Farrington with second shooter Paula captured the whole day from start to finish – however, for the time being, all we have to show are my cellphone shots. Just wait until you see the professional photos!

At Nestldown, meanwhile, several vendor teams (including myself and my associate Stephanie Hui) were hard at work to get everything ready for the celebration; Ephraim of Apis Florals and his crew put up gorgeous floral arrangements…

…. a gilded circular arch, decorated with a profusion of flowers, and a sofreh-aghd, the traditional Persian wedding spread (the bride is of Persian heritage), in the “Chapel,” a natural clearing in the Redwoods at Nestldown, where all ceremonies are held.

Guests were arriving via convenient shuttle service (by Corinthian Ground Transportation) and making their way to the lavishly decorated ceremony area.

Time for the ceremony!

Here comes the bride, with her parents, serenaded by the Corelli Strings trio. The unique Persian-American ceremony was officiated by Sally’s best friend from college, together with Sally’s sister, with participation from her uncle, nephews and nieces, and a friend of the couple. This was a very personal, heartfelt moment for all.

The sofreh was a labor of love by the bride’s parents – her father built the table himself, her mother supplied all the symbolic items that are displayed on the sofreh, and her sister contributed to the ceremony with explanations for all guests who might not be familiar with the Persian wedding customs.

As part of the wedding ceremony, female family members shower the couple with sugar, rubbed over their heads, symbolizing the sweetness of marriage.

Just married!!

While Chris and Sally had to take more romantic photos – and video by Two4Tea – on the beautiful grounds of Nestldown…

…their guests enjoyed cocktails (by Bacchus Wine and Spirits) and hors d’oeuvres by Wylder Space Catering at the “Apple Knoll” event space – under a pergola hung with crystal chandeliers!

Another personal touch: Chris’ and Sally’s beloved canine Neville was cheering guests from the cocktail napkins…

… and Corelli Strings again provided the elegant musical background.

A truly elegant affair! Come dinner time, guests were invited to Nestldown’s Main Lawn …

… where tables with elegant floral centerpieces…

… a seating chart arranged on a huge mirror….

…..and place settings with individual leather name tags awaited them.

After a delicious dinner (by Wylder Space Catering) and heartfelt speeches by their parents, everyone moved inside the “Barn”, the central event space at Nestldown, for cutting the wedding cake and enjoying Persian desserts (by C’est Si Bon Bakery)…

… and for a huge surprise for the couple: a saxophonist whom the bride’s sister had secretly hired to play alongside DJ Woody Miraglia (of Big Fun Disc Jockeys) – a dream come true for Sally and Chris! Saxophonist Justin Ward, a musician through and through, accompanied the newlyweds’ First Dance under the giant crystal chandelier…

… and from that moment on, it was only “dance, dance, dance” for the rest of the evening. A Grand Send-off with shimmering bubbles was the last high point of this incredible celebration, before the couple was whisked away in the authentic vintage London taxi which is one of the special perks at Nestldown.

Keep celebrating and dancing, Sally and Chris – wishing you a lifetime of happiness together!

Expert interview: Jazz musician Robbie Schlosser of the Magnolia Jazz Trio

Wondering whether or not to have live music at your wedding, in particular Jazz music? Here are all the answers you need, from a real “industry veteran” – Robbie Schlosser, leader of the Magnolia Jazz Trio. To me, they are the absolute “gold standard” of Bay Area Jazz.

How did I get into music?
I grew up in a musical family where everyone played something, and I was no exception—starting on violin, then cornet, French horn, and eventually string bass. Like many kids, I listened to popular music on the radio, and one day my dad gave me an LP of early jazz. I was hooked. I started a jazz band in high school, and the passion stuck. Years later, as a grad student at Stanford, I heard the Preservation Hall Jazz Band play live—and right then, I decided to make music my life.

And how did I get into weddings?
I formed the Magnolia Jazz Band in 1975. At first, we played public and private events—sometimes as a dance band, sometimes a trio. As we played more, we were invited to more weddings. Over time, the trio became our specialty. We still play all kinds of celebrations, but weddings are something special.

What fascinates me about weddings?
Every wedding is a unique celebration. Sure, most follow a familiar structure, but each one is personalized—especially through music. The songs a couple chooses reflect who they are. Everything—the venue, decor, food, photographer, and the coordinator—adds to the one-of-a-kind vibe.

What’s our style?
Our style is upbeat, familiar, and fun—music that people recognize and enjoy. It’s rooted in the New Orleans jazz tradition and the American Songbook, spanning the 1920s to today.

How have I evolved?
Three ways: I keep practicing and improving my craft. I’ve learned to better serve people—like a great concierge or waiter, helping clients get exactly what they want. And I’ve become more organized and efficient, handling hundreds of small details behind the scenes.

How do couples find me?
Mainly through word-of-mouth—friends, past clients, and industry colleagues like coordinators and caterers. I stay visible online with a website and regular posts on social media.

Why choose live music?
Both live and recorded music can enhance a wedding. But live music offers a unique presence—a real-time connection between the musicians and the guests that brings the moment to life.

Is live music expensive?
Not necessarily. There are options at every price point. A great DJ might cost more than a small band, and vice versa. Live music can be surprisingly affordable and incredibly impactful.

Want to listen? Here you go! A soundbite for you. Enjoy!

NorCal Special: My Favorite Venues

Silver Creek Valley Country Club

I have done several elegant weddings at SCVCC over the years, and all I can say is – it’s really special.

Located outside San Jose in bustling Silicon Valley, it feels a world away. Set in acres of rolling hills in an upscale residential neighborhood, with a light-filled, elegant clubhouse perfect for celebrations, and with a dedicated ceremony area in front of a waterfall, manicured lawns and top-notch service, it’s a wonderful choice for an extraordinary wedding day.

Photo credit: Clane Gessel

There are so many picturesque spots for photos…

Photo credit: Frank J. Lee
Photo credit: Clane Gessel
Photo credit: Toan Ven
Photo credit: Toan Ven

Here is an example of a wedding ceremony in front of the waterfall:

Photo credit: Frank J. Lee

You can then take a stroll through the manicured park…

Photo credit: Frank J. Lee

… or take a golf cart, just for the fun of it…

Photo credit: Clane Gessel

…and then have more photos taken inside the Clubhouse – with its dramatic staircase:

Photo credit: Clane Gessel
Photo credit: Clane Gessel

And here is the expansive ballroom (with space for 300+ guests!):

Photo credit: Toan Ven

After nightfall, the grounds offer even more opportunities for dramatic photos:

Photo credit: Frank J. Lee

Convinced?

Contact me at jutta@daylikenoother.com

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