Planning your wedding ceremony, you might be wondering how to make this core event of your wedding day personal to the two of you, and one of the most beautiful ways to do this is by incorporating a ritual that is meaningful to you – and that will be unforgettable to your guests.

Many of my couples opt for lighting a “unity candle” together – which is great for indoors (e.g. in a church), but can be tricky outdoors, as even a slight breeze might blow it out.

If your ceremony is taking place outdoors, you could alternatively blend sand as a symbol of your irreversible union…

… or blend wine, to express that same sentiment.

There are more options – you could plant a tree together, symbolizing your growing and thriving relationship…

… or you could, in a nostalgic twist, release doves…

…. or butterflies, to celebrate the occasion.

I hope this is giving you a few ideas for YOUR ceremony!